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Who has it harder?

StockHamster12

October 3, 2023
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Title Who has it harder?
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StockHamster12

Upvotes 0
Comments 32
Date October 3, 2023 8:31 AM UTC
(2 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/AllPillDebate
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/16ymayg/who_has_it_harder/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/AllPillDebate/who-has-it-harder.1233856
https://theredarchive.com/post/1233856
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[–]UnknownAspectt 9 points10 points11 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Every ugly lesbian I saw growing up had partners but their relationships were tumultuous because they were both women.

[–]FitDomPoet 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Highest rate of domestic violence. I've seen it first hand.

[–]LostOnLostIsland"I'll shank my knees, then walk the plank and freeze" 9 points10 points11 points 2 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Could you elaborate as to why you think male incels are volcels who live on easy mode opposed to lesbian incels?

[+]StockHamster12WhitePill[S] -18 points-17 points-16 points 2 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Heterosexual men have all the sexual market; they just need to lower their standards. The moment you have standards, you become volcel rather than incel.

[–]LostOnLostIsland"I'll shank my knees, then walk the plank and freeze" 11 points12 points13 points 2 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

They don't have access to the sexual market. Incles are completly invisible to the opposite sex no matter what standards they have. Women act completly indifferent torwards them, unless they are annoyed by them. Per definition, incles have no options whatsoever and cant be picky because they have nobody to pick from in the first place. So how is that easier than lesbian incles exactly?

[–]ZookeepergameTasty12 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sub5 men cant lower their standards since they have no standards. Lower your standards all you want, you will go from getting 0 interests, to 0 interests.

[–]elektroncloud 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You do realize lesbian incels can just lower their standards and date each other?

[–]GordoObesoX 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Não, eu posso muito bem ter padrões e dizer que não gosto das características da Angelina Jolie, por exemplo. Mas pra começo de conversa, a Angelina Jolie nunca ficaria comigo, ou seja, não faz diferença. Todo mundo têm padrões, a diferença é que incels (apenas homens podem ser incels) não são desejados por ninguém. Não faz a menor diferença, mesmo que todos os incels não tivessem nenhum padrão ou tivessem padrões extremamente baixos, eles continuariam sendo incels, pois ninguém quer incels, nem mesmo as mulheres mais feias do mundo. Então você foi refutado facilmente

[–]EverVigilant1 5 points6 points7 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There is no such thing as a female incel. Including lesbians.

[–]ThisTimeForRealYo 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Yet another “who has it worse” competition. By defining who is worse off(spoiler: incels in 1st world countries with a roof over their head,unlimited internet access and no worry about where their next meal might come from think it’s them) you can then argue that the other groups should all suck it up and spend time making sure incels are taken care of, because objectively incels are worse off and therefore deserve all the help before everyone else.

[+]StockHamster12WhitePill[S] -7 points-6 points-5 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

it's important to dot the i's and cross the t: lesbians incel have it worse
Loneliness can be worse than hunger. Incel lesbians are the ones starving, while heterosexual incel men complain about green vegetables on their plate and not enough caviar.

[–]Nihi1986 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Plenty of heterosexual incels are the same situation where the incel lesbian is, if anything, both groups should be empathetic, they are basically the same thing based on what you describe.

I'm understanding that you would date anyone, regardless how she looks...right? If so, are you in a proper place to meet other lesbians, not just online but preferably in person?? I always thought (and I might be wrong here) that due to scarcity, lesbians and gay men would be more likely to date out of their league. Maybe finding another lonely lesbian would be enough to connect, but if that's not the case, keep working on yourself and don't lose hope.

[–]Aafan_Barbarro 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Lesbian woman incel? Please elaborate.

[–]StockHamster12WhitePill[S] -5 points-4 points-3 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I elaborated on this in my two posts:
https://www.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/16qjds2/women_cannot_experience_sexual_misery/

https://www.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/16r8g8u/women_have_an_infinity_of_choices/

[–]Aafan_Barbarro 6 points7 points8 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I can see you struggle, but I don't see how it's worse than average or below average straight man.

[–]mybelovedx 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Does it not depend on what we consider to be ‘worse’ though? What metric are we using to decide who’s struggling more.

[–]StockHamster12WhitePill[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's true, nothing is specified, but where it could be a battle between heterosexual men and women, there is no debate for incel lesbian women; in all metrics, we have it worse.

[–]Petrosmine 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

All that women have to do is get better at makeup and not be a pig for a relationship, men have to get thousands worth of dollars surgery, get a high paying job, learn to actually be interesting to then MAYBE get a relationship

[–]SproetThePoetEnvironmentpilled circumcucked ogrelite 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lesbian women and heterosexual men are operating under the same conditions with the same competition

[–]Mitago1 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not to be too radical, but in my opinion all incel groups have it equally hard. Maybe the struggles are different, but the core problem is the same. I can see why you might feel like being a lesbian incel is harder since your dating pool is a lot smaller than incels or heterosexual femcels.

[–]Sultry_Jezebel 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

There is no such thing as lesbians. Lesbians are just chadsexual.

[–]StockHamster12WhitePill[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I can't disagree with you

[–]Intelligent-Green611 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Are you genuinely low IQ or just trolling?

[–]StockHamster12WhitePill[S] -1 points0 points1 point 2 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

It's time to grow up and face the truth, and stop being delusional.
Insulting and downvoting won't change fundamental truths.

[–]Nihi1986 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The ugliest lesbians I know have beautiful or average looking girlfriends, though I honestly don't know much about dating for lesbians.

Harder than straight ugly (and non rich) men? If it truly is harder then I'm really sorry for them.

[–]Electrical_Coat_8714 -1 points0 points1 point 2 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I'm sorry you are an ugly fat lesbian, but that doesn't change reality at all.

[–]StockHamster12WhitePill[S] 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

fat

Sorry but lying won't make you more credible; you are and will remain delusional, your perception of reality is a fantasy. Open your window, it won't hurt you..

[–]Electrical_Coat_8714 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Ah just ugly, that's okay too

Anyways . . . I'll go ask my butch lesbians if they had trouble locking down their pillow princesses.

I could very well be wrong

[–]StockHamster12WhitePill[S] -1 points0 points1 point 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

At the same time, for the rare occasion when you step into the real world, take the opportunity to ask your male friends or any strangers you come across in the street who are in a relationship.

[–]Electrical_Coat_8714 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah man sure thing, I've never been with a woman and have no idea how time consuming and ego busting chasing pussy is /s

Just be glad you aren't a cishet virgin

[–]GordoObesoX 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Não existe mulher incel, isso é impossível

[–]MrBrittle 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I saw that you put "incel" in quotes, but then in parentheses "volcel", so I considered real volcels, like priests, men who want to wait until marriage, asexuals, etc.

However, in your comments you seem to consider real incels as volcels, if you had been clear I wouldn't have voted for lesbians but would have voted for straight men.

Your poll was poor due to lack of clarity.

I also voted lesbian incels because for a woman to be an incel she has to be repulsive in such a way that I have never seen in my life, because even the ugliest lesbians (physically and morally) that I have ever seen were capable of having sexual relations with women .

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