Like the title said tomorrow is our 14th wedding anniversary. My wife is the one who initiated the divorce, she was cheating. I tried to make it work but she decided she was done. We are still currently living together until the end of the month. Last night I told her that tomorrow evening I was going out with a friend (this friend happens to be female but its plutonic) and she was pissed. She went on and on about how she wouldn't do that on our anniversary etc etc. I was taken back by her comment. I replied "You wanted to get divorced, I'm trying to put my life back together and figure out how to best be here for the kids and myself, why do you think Id want to spend our anniversary at home with you ??" Am I wrong? I mean the marriage is over, I feel I have no obligation to do anything like that. If I'm off the mark please let me know. Just looking for perspective.