After 10 years together, 5 married we’re calling it quits. I’ve put up with being unappreciated, disrespected, belittled, but I’ve finally had enough.

I’ve been accused of cheating so many times it’s ridiculous. I get up at 4 AM go to work, come home and pick up the kids from a relative and watch them, feed them, bathe them and go to bed to do it all again. She claims to have proof, of such, but it doesn’t exist.

Claims I’m mentally, emotionally, financially and physically abusive. But “is showing me grace.” I’ve drawn up a settlement that includes $500/month cs for one child (over the state guidelines because she makes more than I do) giving her the home, all of the equity, primary custody, and literally all I want is visitation with my infant child.

She claims the cs isn’t enough, and that she’s going to press charges and I’ll owe her pain and suffering when she’s done with me. And apparently can’t understand that if she contests, my attorney will be going after everything, and even in mediation she won’t end up with anything close to what I’ve offered at this point.

Her teen daughter that I raised and supported for 10 years decided that she wanted to live with her dad and has made allegations of abuse against both of us in order to create a change in circumstance that would outweigh his $40,000 child support debt. So at the moment I’m facing criminal issues as well at the divorce, I just really can’t wait to get past it.