Inputs: 1,5 years since wife stopped coming home 1 y after ive initiated the divorce

190 email threads( real number)

1 delayed court hearing( moved from summer to december)

20k in lawyers

How it went:

  • there was little time to say anything
  • each lawyer 15 mins read their presentstion of case
  • each lawyer asked 1 question, 1 response
  • each side as wered 1 question from a lawyer ( 2mins)
  • each side, gave 5 min final speech

Basically, it goes fast. There is no time to brag or argue. She will 100% come up with some random crazy lies, that you wont be able to answer to( 2 times cheating, non existing porshe turbo cars, huge hidding property claims and inability to work due yo stress)

Now had to wait , for anither month for a verdict

Lesson : don’t expect much from a hearing. There will be almost 0 time to react to say anything. Be very short and precise. Dont accuse, as this will not be take seriously(judges hate the bragging, they want it to be clear and fast..yeah)

I though, it would take a month to get my unilateral divorce. And it took 1year to hearing. Financial struggle is true. But u will get used to it and will survive. You dont believe how creative and steong you become. As well, all bullshit that possibly can happen - will happen. Sht sticks to sht. Be ready, just work it out

It is much better without her, even having nothing! You gonna learn so much about your skills.

You will come through being desperate, fear, lonely. You will hate women. But, then you understand that they are not same. You got exactly what you can got and how you acted in life. Missing barriers, people pleasing, attention seeking, simping, forgetting about yourself

Basically, u forgot your own value

So, be brave and fix it

If you want to have amazing women, you have to become amazing guy

Make sure you save yourself first, before saving broke ss woman. They gonna upgrade quick, you gonna downgrade quick