First consultation coming up

dday_throwaway3 · 2022-06-05T11:56:24+00:00

Think of it as an interview for them. Here are some questions to ask, and things to consider: http://forum.mensdivorce.com/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=13377

Gattsama · 2022-06-05T09:53:02+00:00

With lawyer? You need to maximize your time. Your lawyer is there for legal advise, not to vent or be your therapist. Research as much as possible about your state laws. Make a list of questions and concerns based on what you research and you personal situation. Be concise and direct. Question and answers.

Have notes and take notes. Remember your lawyer is NOT going to do all the lifting. You have to come prepared and informed.

I have made several excel sheets: list of all assets and debts AS OF DATING OF FILING (these become semi-locked), monthly budget of household when together, my monthly budget separated, projection of support (no kids), etc. Also have a word doc with a timeline of all major events (again no emotion) that I can reference if needed.

Good luck

guy_n_cognito_tu · 2022-06-05T13:03:50+00:00

Bring a list of all assets, liabilities and income sources, for both you and the wife. Address all concerns about children and the like.

pegleg_legal · 2022-06-05T17:37:42+00:00

Just the facts, just the facts.

Ask about their experience.

Ask about their fees.

Ask about their team and support staff.

Ask about the best way to communicate.

See additional lawyers. At least three. When you choose one, let the others know.

Title	First consultation coming up
Author	FuckMatias
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	June 5, 2022 9:41 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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