Any pros to starting it myself? I'm in michigan, and will be speaking with An ADAM lawyer next week for a hour consultation.

Had last therepy meeting with "wife " shits been going down hill for a while.

Anxious ,slept like shit night before. Just reiterated things I already knew , she's going through the options. Even I Gave up trying eventually.

To much hurt in our past on both ends. Therapist mentioned a lot of peole feel guilt over things done or not done.

I've owned my mistakes ,wrongs I've done. Addiction (mine) is terrible negative effect on marriage,even if you're well functioning.

I have a pre nup I have to find that was a run of the kill legal.com type site I own the house prior to marriage, yes it has equity. Yes we both have a lot of debt.

Honestly mainly afraid of loosing the animals. Two dogs one cat, both acquired during marriage.

I can't see her having funds to care for them. Let alone where she's going to live.

I have no friends , though i do try to make them, no real support group aside forms, and my therapist. Not close with my father really, but not poor off. I'm 40, good shape for my age, work as a RN.

She has furniture she's bought in my home, the bed couch and TV stand I don't care if she takes it but again, shell.need means to hire someone to move it out lol.

I'm not naive I expect things to go poorly.

Well hi.