I have been posting here a lot. Sorry or repeating. But I am lost.

My wife and I are divorcing. She wanted it not me.

A year ago we separated after she got back from a trip to another country. Upon arrival she expressed interest in leaving me and the 3 kids and living there alone.

She is bipolar and bpd.

She has been slowing realising that moving to another land where she does not speak the language and has non job skills is not realistic.

For the last year she has stayed in her room. Keeps he door locked and all but ignores the kids. Leaving me to raise them. 6, 8, 13.

The last few months she has rebuilt her relation ship with her kids.

Over the last month she has been calling me down stairs a few times a week for sex. She is crazy passionate. Does. Want me to leave.

I ask her what’s going on. She does not want a relation ship. But just a. Fwb situation.

She is hot then cold. We make me dinner. We sit at the table. We have sex like we did in our 20s. She buys me things to use in her room.

We kiss. Hold hands. Go out to dinner.

But she still says she wants divorce. And does not want a relationship.

I am lost and confused again. My therapist can’t make heads or tails of her behaviour. And tells me to get out. But I can’t. Leave the house. And take the kids. My wife won’t leave.

I’m lost and confused. I am hoping you guys can help me sort this out.