Hello,
Currently dealing with a situation that hurts and makes me feel angry.
My STBX and I separated in JANUARY. I stayed in my own apartment and paid my portion of the house. I was away all of JAN-FEB. In MARCH , we started to talk and hang out more. I eventually started staying back at the house (not romantically) and still paid for both living spaces. We were living together and doing things from MAR-MAY.
She tells me she wants a divorce at the end of MAY. and the next day she already has someone new in her phone.

She just told me at the start of MAR she had conversation with her cousin about making it work with me but NEVER had that discussion with me. So the entire time I had no clue what or how she was feeling.

So at the end of May when she told me about not continuing together , i felt like i was caught off guard. I moved out again at the start of June and she already has this new love interest spending the night at the house. That i am still contributing to.

I can’t tell you how much emotion runs through me talking about it.

What is the best way to deal with this?