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I don’t know what jurisdiction you’re in, but in Canada you can make an argument that your ex is underemployed. The court can then impute her a higher income, which may reduce or eliminate the child support you pay her.
And yes, in most places the system remains biased against fathers. It’s bullshit. Talk to your government rep, start a protest, etc to get the laws changed.
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I hear you. The pendulum used to be far over on the other end of the swing, when women and kids who were abandoned by the husband/father were left living in poverty while the assholes ran off and ignored all sense of responsibility. Now that the pendulum has swung, it's pretty far over on the side that biases against men, but work is being done to change that. Some of the provinces in Canada just recently (2013 where I live) instituted a new family law that makes it more equitable, where there is no mention of "mother" or "father" - term is "parent" for both sides. It's not "custody", it's "guardianship." Not "visitation", it's "parenting time". Language like that is meaningful.
There are still examples of courts here that show bias towards women in a divorce, but the hope is that the bias will die off with the older judges.
We do still need all dads to pull together and pressure our governments to treat men and women equally in family law cases everywhere.
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