How are you guys dealing? Finally divorced last week and I have two children from the 14yr relationship and 9 year marriage. My oldest even had complications at birth and heart surgeries, seizures, strokes, went through so much together and a lot of struggles we supported one another through with him (he is doing great now btw, normal 6 yr old). My youngest is about to be 4 this month also (growing up so quick) It has been hell for me, but mainly she doubled down on her affair with the married guy with kids when I confronted her, and he wouldn't leave his wife for her. Instead she moved out and has another boyfriend she has been showing off to everyone. Question is, how do you guys deal? I really dislike her and she takes every opportunity to say "im a good person, youre mean i will not be treated like this" if i ignore her or cold shoulder her actions. I hate being around her, hate seeing her (she is a local celebrity here) and I find it hard to coparent with her because she is always up to something. How do you guys deal with the daily frustrations? Daily anger? It goes away for a bit and then it comes flooding back. Mind you i live in a place with 0 family. I truly have no one. I moved from across the country to be with her when we were dating, we tried long distance and I devoted my life to this one person (took me almost 4 years to propose because I wanted it to be right and not ever be in a divorce, especially with kids ( I feel like a failure most days, not being able to provide my kids a 2 parent home). So here I am and at any moment I am happy and at any moment I am angry. How do you deal? What makes it get better?