I've been away from my STBXW since April and divorce will hopefully be done in the next month or two however I get a lot of now you're basically single you should be sleeping with all these women. For some reason I have no motivation to date or sleep around. Before I was married or in a long relationship almost 13 years ago i was trying to hit any and everything but now in my late 30's i have no motivation to date sleep with any woman, I've been to the strip club once but that's it. I'm wondering if I lost my sex drive or if there's something wrong with me. Has any other man experienced this? I some times think it may be a mental thing because even when I talk to another woman I get a sense of guilt which is weird.