We’ve had our fights and differences… but we’re past that I’m done.

She has some very angry moments especially when she’s been drinking. And has some narcissistic tendencies.

I’m debating on telling her I’m moving out and seeing if we can get an agreement figured out between us with a mediator (4 year marriage, no peppery to split, no kids etc) I’m pretty confident that won’t happen with her…

Or just getting a lawyer and serving her and seeing where it goes kinda deal.

Thoughts? Bummer to spend $ on the lawyer if I don’t need to but if I tell her I’m leaving and she freaks out I could have her served that night and get things rolling …

Thoughts?