Need a little help here.

daniel22mckee · 2023-12-19T10:52:30+00:00

The one that you’re at right now. I look at this is kind of like an anonymous group therapy. When you’re comfortable share what’s been on your mind in here and you’ll be surprised at the amount of support that you’ll get.

SkeptiCynical · 2023-12-19T17:46:04+00:00

I'm divorced and remarried. Nobody thought I'd ever remarry, least of all me or my new wife. My divorce took almost 6 years to finalize and it was followed by a separate 3-year custody trial just a year later.

You should be here. Read the sidebar. Peruse the posts and comments. I'm working on a wiki and references (there are just so many hours in a day)

First things first: Don't drink, hit the gym, and get in therapy. Those things will make a world of difference in how you come out on the other side.

rhett342 · 2023-12-19T14:53:01+00:00

I just use this sub. Everyone here is here for the same reason and there are a bunch of really great men that are happy b to support you.

Plenty-Entertainer71 · 2023-12-19T15:56:44+00:00

I’m officially divorced but I still visit it helps me heal

HerbEverstanks · 2023-12-19T19:25:11+00:00

I also find this sub helpful. Read other stories to know that each one is different.

Some of us make more money/have more assets than others.

Most have children/ custody issues

Some divorces are over quickly and other take better parts of a decade.

All of us (or 99%) have been torn by the civil court system.

Personally, telling your own story here, chiming in, or just reading helps me. Follow the advice from others (gym, exercise, diet, reading, work on being your better self for you and kids if you have them, etc)

Most people dont want to hear your story because divorce is a taboo subject. Some will look down on you if they are religious or sitting on a high horse. I find it helpful to repeat my story to anyone who will listen if its brought up - even strangers at my workplace.

Refrain from FB or other social media for your story. This is the place.

Yankuba3 · 2023-12-19T12:16:17+00:00

There’s a Facebook group for divorced men that is run by Michael Rhodes.

Title	Need a little help here.
Author	Theedon
Upvotes	5
Comments	9
Date	December 19, 2023 8:42 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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