Hey guys, my wife (31) and I(30) decided to go the non contested divorce route here in Oregon. No real assets and I will be filing bankruptcy in the next few months because of a failed business. We have one child (3). I currently make 73k in Oregon ( recently made a career change and accepted a lower paying job because I made too much to file chapter 7) and she makes 42k. We had a deal that I will allow her to claim the child every year on taxes and I will take the majority of the debt after divorce if she does not pursue alimony only child support. ( I have him 50%) of the time. I Also agreed that child support will be a set amount of $450 a month. (My attorney said this will come out to less than if she decided to pursue alimony). I'm completely terrified that I will be financially doomed if she decides to get spousal support after only being married for 5 years. What are the odds that the judge grants spousal support if she requests? Are there any success stories of guys that actually thrive financially after divorce?