I’m laying here next to my girlfriend, who is 51 and I’m 54.  7 Months ago I was a pile of blubber, scared, emotionally drained, fighting my way through a divorce, convinced life was over.  I lived 7 years, with a mostly cold wife, consumed with her family’s drama, and with us as a couple anything as a priority. Fault me if you will, I went on the “Apps” started dating, and found an army of 40’s - 50’s women who are desperate for a good partner, attention, and love.

Read Gatekeepers, learn some Alpha tricks, I dropped 79 lbs 6 years ago,,and have a decent job, with supportive staff - so once I decided I couldn’t take any more neglect, these new women were presented with a good package. Believe in yourself - start today in making yourself a prize, rage, cry, collapse - but hear this divorced, and divorcing, and recovering men - if you want it, you’ll have your pick of them. At one point I was dating 6 of them simultaneously, until one chose me and pinned me down, if you know what I mean, for 3 weeks. After reading Gatekeepers, tactical/strategy dating books, I have changed the game, and will never be part of the “Program” again. I’m loving, respecting, and enjoying my eager new partner, but protecting my assets, my values, my life, and my life goals. I send you luck! Believe, keep going! Never give up on yourself. Evolve!