Probably nothing but interesting to me.

Striking-Trainer8148 · 2022-03-31T17:02:38+00:00

It’s bait. Stay away. The only thing that’s interesting about it to you is the fact that you are finally being desired after years of being neglected, abused, and left.

Her putting forth such a minimal effort to send subliminal messages through friends of friends should not have a any positive effect on you whatsoever.

Sure, it may provide you a glimmer of hope that maybe the last 13 years doesn’t mean nothing, but the reality is that she destroyed that, not you. It is her job to rebuild it, not yours. This minimal nothing pretend communication is not worth your time anymore. You are worth more than this bullshit.

Her throwing this fishing line out to seek your attention says much more about her than it does you. She’s realizing what she lost, but that does not mean that is your job as a man to pick up the pieces of the broken glass that she left in your relationship. She wants you to chase down this lead and hopefully chase after her. Don’t do it. The best possible thing you could do is completely ignore that this ever happened. It will do wonders for your pride,.

Also, if you jump at the chance to communicate with her now she will use that in her back pocket for the rest of your life. When she feels lonely or undesirable she will contact you in the hopes that you chasing her will make her feel better. Do not give into this game that she’s playing. Ignore her once this time and you will never have to deal with it again. If you give in and contact her, she will play this card whenever she feels like it often at inopportune times in your life.

Agitated-Fee-6497 · 2022-03-31T17:49:01+00:00

anyone see patterns around around the number 12 in regards to divorce? i was married 12, and there's like 4 posts right on the front page saying theirs ended at 12 too

Agitated-Fee-6497 · 2022-03-31T17:02:41+00:00

A sign? What kind of sign? I assume you mean like some kind of road sign or decorative bar sign? If so, is it significant to you? If not, I wouldn’t bother with it.

pegleg_legal · 2022-04-01T02:22:06+00:00

Sometimes a sign is just a sign, and not a sign.

warrior_up · 2022-03-31T22:30:42+00:00

What’s crazy is when reality starts setting in you’d think we’d be happy watching them sink in guilt and shame they couldn’t somehow see coming for a quick piece of ass. Sadly we still feel bad for how pathetic they are and don’t want them to suffer too badly

InWeGoNow · 2022-03-31T20:32:19+00:00

Response:. "thanks for the heads up. I won't be collecting it. Please feel free to keep or dispose of it at your own disgression. Hope you're doing well."

Title	Probably nothing but interesting to me.
Author	Agitated-Fee-6497
Upvotes	12
Comments	30
Date	March 31, 2022 4:48 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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