She wants out

Ok_Cat5539 · 2024-09-17T02:17:01+00:00

Thank you some more. Mind is playing trucks on me and she is trying to be like flirting with me.

koboboba · 2024-09-15T11:29:50+00:00

She's a retarded child, it will only get worse not better, don't waste your life with her, if you're disabled she'll torture you and neglect you. Cut ties before it's too late for you. You can comfortably live in the phillipines on your money if the US is too expensive, and hire a home helper that will cook clean and do everything your wife will never do. Drop the leech.

Ok_Cat5539 · 2024-09-15T05:39:18+00:00

I have one other idea that may have caused all this to be happening now.

I got hurt while working and was doing very well where shev raised the kids and had a part time job to cover the extras and get away from the kids for a bit

After that is when things started being different. She doesn't look at me as the man she married because of my total disability. And think she now holds it against me she had to support the family. And she can't do it anymore and has given up. But she won't say it.

My best guess. I will see my divorce lawyer hopefully this week and get things going to relieve her from having to be around such a worthless man

EnvironmentalAd3558 · 2024-09-15T05:08:38+00:00

Many courts will waive court filing fees for low income petitioners.

upvotersfortruth · 2024-09-15T04:43:44+00:00

I had been planning to purchase a small boat

You know the saying, if it flies, floats or ..., rent it!

Sounds like she's in some kind of long-term funk with a social media addiction. Maybe a divorce will shake her up and out of it, but once you file, prepare for her to change one way or another. Waiting another 20 years doesn't seem like a good option.

Gattsama · 2024-09-15T04:29:51+00:00

We don't know your story or situation, but if you hang out here long enough, you see the same dozen or so stories or repeat. Of course she doesn't want to do anything. Others are doing everything for her. Of course she doesn't have a real reason, because the reason is she's unhappy. And she has decided that her happiness is NOT under her control, it's the result of externals.

If she's not happy, then there's an external reason for it. These reasons are not under her control. If what she needed to be happy was already in the relationship or current situation, she would be happy / not feeling this way. But she is unhappy. Therefore, the current situation and/or relationship need to change so she can be happy.

Understand that this is not based on logic or reason, but feelings. And you can not control her feelings or use logic to argue against her feelings.

This might not be her.. but it's one of the more common archetypes you see here..

Title	She wants out
Author	Ok_Cat5539
Upvotes	10
Comments	12
Date	September 15, 2024 4:14 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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