I'm 4 months into the process. I have a lawyer and it's frustrating that as time goes on my ex gets more petty and nasty. I'm literally just waiting for our court dates and she's filing declarations to the court about how much of an deadbeat I am even though I was awarded full custody by the restraining order I was granted because of her DV against me. I read her statements and it's just cheap shot after cheap shot. She omits very relevant details and straight up lies about stuff. I responded the first time to point out some of her omissions and lies with actual evidence. She back peddled in a new statement saying how she didn't think it was relevant and attempts to cover up my facts with her opinion. I don't even want to respond anymore because I refuse to be brought down to her level. So I read her latest declaration and started laughing. And I'm just thinking, ok what is this new statement saying other than you knowingly left out information because you didn't think was relevant. But, now since you got caught trying to hide it you're trying to downplay it and call me a deadbeat again.