Trying to stay positive. It took 7 months; she initiated married 15-years. She wasn’t a terrorist. She did get over $100,000, and a paid off the car, and most of the possessions. We didn’t lawyer up. We paid a mediator $1700 and just gave her what she wanted. I got 50/50 custody of my 11-year-old son. It hurts, but I'm glad it’s over. I haven’t posted, but I spent hours reading posts on this sub, and it really helped me get through the process. Just wanted to say thanks to everyone here and stay strong. It does get easier. I will never get married or live with a woman again. Will take care of my son and just pump and dump moving forward.