Divorce process started about a year ago. Separated since August. I still see her often as we are co-parenting. Not sure what her aim is but she seems to relish in telling me about her dating life. Personally couldn’t care less about who or what she is doing, but something did stick out to me.

She mentioned going out drinking at breweries with the new guy because he is into that. Just found it odd because when we were together just a sip of alcohol would give her migraines. Oh and we couldn’t go out to eat a lot because gluten so upset her stomach. I guess all the gluten in beer doesn’t count. So we stayed in all the time, and she would go to bed at 8:00. But I never put effort into the relationship. It's hard to put effort in when your spouse is hiding under the covers.

So it seems as though she made a conscious choice to be miserable when she was with me. Which I am sure she will also do with the new guy once she’s got him hooked. All in all just reinforces the decision to end this. I had enough of her misery to last 3 lifetimes.