I'm going to make a very long story as short as I can.

My STBXW and I have a 5-year-old daughter. We've been separated for 11 months. At my daughter's pre-K graduation, I found out not only that she has another man around my daughter, but that he's involved enough to be in family pictures with her.

Under normal circumstances, I understand people move on. What makes this so hard is that since I left the house, I've only seen my daughter in person seven times and have only had a handful of FaceTime calls beyond that. Meanwhile, my wife has repeatedly told me that I'm not allowed to have any women around our daughter, or even a girlfriend's pets around her. Yet she has another man living in the house (assuming on this one) before our divorce is even finalized.

Financially, I'm still paying for everything: the mortgage, utilities, phones, and even her car payment. I know a lot of people will say I should stop, but if I don't pay those bills, my daughter is the one who suffers when her lazy ass ends up getting them put on the streets. My attorney has advised me that since I can afford it, continuing to pay will likely have a positive outlook on me when the court looks at alimony and child support.

To make matters worse, she still hasn't responded to my attorney's discovery requests after almost 60 days. My attorney is now looking into filing motions to compel compliance.

I don't know. Maybe I just needed to get this off my chest. It's hard as hell watching another guy spend time with my kid when I can barely see her myself.

What do you all think?