My STBXW has claimed our children the past 2 years. Our tax broker said that they prioritize based on who files first. When I brought this up to my STBXW she claimed that IRS states the claiming to the custodial parent. Does this make sense?

We currently have joint custody across the board, stipulated and signed by the judge. Does this not mean claiming children for a tax filing is shared either by one parent claiming the children and switching every other year or we both claim one child each. It just seems extremely unfair that she has the priority with our tax broker.

I have communicated with my STBXW so it’s in writing- I would like to come to discuss this matter and come to an agreement. If she is not willing to discuss, I will file a motion to have a judge review and make judgment.

If you have any advice, please let me know.

Thanks,