Finished my divorce at around 9:20 am, local. Everything was done via zoom. No children. Just a split of money to equalize equity in the house (which I am keeping).

At the end the judge got to ask us both questions about our understanding of the maintenance rights we were giving up. My ex got a little sniffly at the end, when the judge pointed out that she could never again rely on me for support, even if she became disabled.

I think that was when finality sunk in for her.

and I had to unfortunately go back to work. I wish i could have taken today off. I don’t feel terrible. But I don’t feel good either.