Wasting time

Adorable_FecalSpray · 2022-03-14T00:07:37+00:00

Appears you might not have learned anything from your first marriage?

brandon_cabral · 2022-03-13T23:08:36+00:00

We have bad news for you sir….

Character_Hippo90 · 2022-03-13T22:31:56+00:00

Sounds as though neither of you are emotionally committed to this relationship and it’s only a financial arrangement at best. Best advice would be for you to discuss things with a legal advisor, weigh your options, and proceed with an honest quest towards happiness.

Upper-Initiative-140 · 2022-03-13T23:14:34+00:00

Leave her and just date younger women. Do NOT co-habitate or marry again.

rsmiley77 · 2022-03-14T19:07:11+00:00

I’ll probably get downvoted first this but right now at least you aren’t in too deep.

Marriage no matter the first second or tenth time has a fatal flaw…. The person who makes more is on the hook for supporting the other after you go your separate ways. This is almost double jeopardy… you supported the person during the marriage. Now you get to support her again AFTER the marriage. At least during the marriage they can give the argument that the other person was assumed to be cleaning and making it possible for you to make money. After? Nothing.

In your case no kids so no lopsided support there. The marriage has been short so no big alimony issues there either. Heck you may even be able to get the marriage annulled…. But every day you don’t act is another day that’s a reason for making you pay to support her in the future.

Funny_Wolverine_9 · 2022-03-13T23:00:56+00:00

" i am 36 years old and got problems with my second marriage. "

Second marriage? Do you not know that 2nd marriages have a 60% divorce rate? And 3rd marriages have a 70% divorce rate?

Please educate yourself on the red pill and avoid marriage.

live_long_n_prosper · 2022-03-14T01:16:19+00:00

U got played, end it before shes legally entitled to more of your money, you're both at an age where u are not responsible for saving someone else, she's old enough to be totally responsible for figuring out and managing her mental health issues, she's clearly not doing that so how can the relationship be fulfilling to you? Mentally ill folks need love and support but only if they're pulling their weight and have a genuine desire and put in the effort to help themselves

Crushed_95 · 2022-03-14T01:40:33+00:00

Marriage is not your thing bro and it seem like you have companionship issues where you absolutely need to be with someone. Drop the dead weight before it consume more of you time, money, and lifespan and go solo for a long time!

Gxl4 · 2022-03-14T05:35:02+00:00

Wife loses attention after we sign prison documents.

Yeah, thats what happens man. She got you by the balls, and the law works in her favour. Now, i’m not sure were you are living, but get a lawyer asap. Short marriage + no kids might work in your benefit

we dont have a child

Good. Now make sure that doesnt happen. When she rubs your knob 3 times we both know its going in. No kids make it easier, and most likely cheaper to get rid of her.

i’m working like a horse and take care of all the expenses.

Why do you keep up with this? Dont be a walking ATM, that could work only if she’s nice, knows how to set a budget and keep it so it work out financially, cooks healthy, cleans the whole place, takes care or you when you come home and make sure your life is becoming better. Its clear she ain’t doing that. A hard next.

Whats your opinion guys

You already know by now ; Lawyer up, and get her out. Dont move out yourself. She probably will do the “ I cAn cHaNgE dance” , Time to deny the pussy pass. Sex is for sale, if a wumeng doesnt bring some positive points into your life to make it worth it, she has to go. Get a dog, way cheaper and loyal, and drama free. cleaning the house you still have to do yourself though.

redditisforgeeks1 · 2022-03-14T09:22:40+00:00

No offense but any man who is dumb enough to get married again deserves it

crypto_keeper88 · 2022-03-14T19:49:59+00:00

Well you got married twice, maybe you will learn your lesson....or not...

canival9885 · 2022-03-14T11:10:06+00:00

Sounds like it’s not going to get any better and will only get worse. Go with your gut instinct and split before it gets worse. Good luck

warrior_up · 2022-03-14T13:25:14+00:00

Your situation is exactly what I’m afraid of most in life. Going through it again. There’s just NO POINT, there’s no forever - avoid marriage boys at all costs

73% divorce rate on second marriages. Would you bet on your life with only 27% chance of living happy??

For you Sir. Just get it done ASAP. You’ve been through this before - you know how bad it sucks, just get out and stop going into government contracts for someone that’s just giving you your turn. Do it do it fast and be free

Please man for the sake of all man kind, get educated, snap out of it - don’t be the 3x 4x married douche bag. Be better than marriage, you tried it, it failed miserably- we don’t need a marriage contract to be happy the 3rd time

BlessedAFx777 · 2022-03-15T16:29:23+00:00

“ i am 36 years old and got problems with my second marriage.”

Surprise surprise.

Maybe it’ll work the 3rd time.🙄

Title	Wasting time
Author	hogaraytt
Upvotes	5
Comments	28
Date	March 13, 2022 9:31 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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