Married since 2015. She was married prior, but does not have custody of her kids. Plus her kids are old enough now and want nothing to do with her.

Since the birth of our son she has become very passive aggressive, and not only that she has been miraculously diagnosed with ADHD and prescribed with Adderall. Since I’ve been married to her, she has gone to numerous mental health providers and has been diagnosed with psychosis, bipolar, etc. and put on numerous drugs, which never worked.

We tried counseling, and she canceled it because it was too expensive. According to her it’s not my job to find the counselor.

Now she’s been diagnosed ADHD, which is the most misdiagnosed in females who have borderline personality disorder, but she takes Adderall for ADHD and if you’re taking speed and you have ADHD, you don’t act like a speed freak however, she acts like a speed freak when she takes her meds, so I am to believe she is not afflicted with ADHD

I’ve asked her numerous times to get re-diagnosed. I asked her numerous times to change her dosage yet she’s ruining our marriage. She says I don’t listen to her. She says I talk over her. She says I constantly interrupt her. That is the only way I can talk while she is on her speed.

Not only that I have a daughter from a previous marriage, and she constantly refers to her as “your daughter”

My daughter has told me that she hates how my wife speaks to me and makes me do everything. I work night shift and when I wake up I have to clean the house make dinner for the kids and bathe my kids before I go to work and my wife just goes into tunnel vision hides in the basement and pretends to rearrange things.

Sorry for the long winded post. These are just cliff notes. There is so much more I just don’t know what to do.