Me n my wife are currently separated. She is with my son in Mexico and won't return back or let me talk to him. We live in Philly.. She claims that I'm having an affair. I am absolutely not, i had terrible luck with women, so an affair is the last thing i need.... i love my son very much. She never worked, I'm the sole provider.. She wants me to quit my job n move to Texas only then she will return back. because she has some family members there.. i told her i don't feel safe around some of her crazy family there in Texas based on my past experiences.. we never lived in Texas.. she says that her family won't interfere with our lives. I told her I'm willing to move any other state than Texas, once i find a job... her circular logic is I'm having an affair and wherever I go in the rest of the 49 states i will continue that affair.. only if i move to Texas i will stop my affair, because she has family there.. but they won't interfere .. until i move to Texas she will not return back..