How many of you have attracted your ex's back after "working on yourself"? I'm 28 and with the break up going on for the past 3 weeks I've lost weight it's really noticeable, I want you get a sleeve tattoo, get a new cut and start hitting thr gym, she's attracted to me and loves me I'm the one that cheated on her only through messages though. We have 2 kids and I want to get her back