The comic and caption aren’t necessarily gendered so why are some of the comments?

JonMyMon · 2026-05-29T21:44:53+00:00

If the lady in the comic is the one who wants to talk or cuddle, shouldn't she just like.... initiate that instead of expecting the guy to initiate everything? Especially if they're in a FWB arrangement.

Late-Hat-9144 · 2026-05-30T05:32:12+00:00

I mean, she clearly doesnt care about his after-care either, its all about what she wants and fulfilling her own needs... at any time did she ask what he needed or wanted after sex? No, because she doesnt care.

Nicherix · 2026-05-30T09:19:58+00:00

Many women are so indoctrinated in being victims so they feel being used even when they enjoy. They cannot just enjoy the process, they need to get somthing in addition.

auntiesamautism · 2026-05-29T22:07:23+00:00

LMAO and they have the audacity to call men entitled.

Dependent-Match4726 · 2026-05-30T20:37:55+00:00

Why are they acting like having sex = giving up your dignity and the only was to keep that dignity intact is to receive favors. Sayings that all this extra stuff is needed in order for a woman to not feel “used” kinda implies that the act itself is inherently degrading for women, which isn’t true, and is ironically what they would call a “patriarchal standard”. Funny how they go against their own logic about these things.

diagnosissplendid · 2026-05-29T22:36:17+00:00

Sometimes this stuff is so specific I wonder if they're actually looking for a sex worker

lukozaid · 2026-05-30T07:59:17+00:00

Nobody is a mind reader…

spinningpeanut · 2026-05-29T22:17:08+00:00

I mean it is part of it, but damn everyone can have compatibility issues. It kinda feels like people are taking it too seriously though. That's the kind of thing that comes from a prudish culture overall. It's fun, it's gross, it's silly, and when it's treated like a ceremony or the most important thing there are bound to be some attitude problems.

But it's pretty clear you can tell whose never had fun or are still virgins. Cuddling while still covered in fluids isn't my idea of fun. Warm shower, have fun cleaning off the fluids, fuzzy clothes, cuddles while watching something. Like damn people really don't know how to be realistic in their expectations do they? Who doesn't clean up afterwards?

ManhuntFanguy · 2026-06-04T03:20:45+00:00

This comic is stupid af. Why do you feel used when your hsving sex with someome u trust/love? If you feel used. Then dont have sex???

ChimpPimp20 · 2026-06-14T11:53:18+00:00

Fwb but she expects cuddles. That doesn’t make sense.

Financial_Leopard_55 · 2026-06-01T12:14:30+00:00

Please 👏 for 👏 the 👏 love 👏 of 👏 god don't write like this

Title	The comic and caption aren’t necessarily gendered so why are some of the comments?
Author	meeralakshmi
Upvotes	100
Comments	19
Date	May 29, 2026 9:10 PM UTC (2 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/EverydayMisandry
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