This Is Literal Abuse!

MarionberryPrimary50 · 2024-11-06T14:17:28+00:00

Average askfeminist comment

Its a literal circlejerk sub

lemons7472 · 2024-11-06T18:28:56+00:00

I think it’d be best if the husband did follow through divorce anyways, not just because of the fact that it’s a “option” out of this ultimatum itself, but because the fact that she’s even trying to force this onto him, is evidence of her being potentially very abusive, asking you to cut off parts of your body function willy nilly just because she doesn’t like that her side didn’t win the vote. She may do this again and again to him with other topics, forcing an ultimatum on the husband that either threatens his body or just anything she wants him to do, or else she’ll end the relationship.

I’m glad that the other comments call out this abuse.

Fefannyo · 2024-11-06T13:43:01+00:00

Atleast people in the comments are speaking out against this horseshit

Ratattack1204 · 2024-11-06T18:24:00+00:00

Imagine a man ever telling a woman she better get her tubes tied or hes divorcing her.

lemons7472 · 2024-11-06T18:19:34+00:00

You’d think memebers of feminism who are against taking away people’s rights to their body, would also care about the rights of a man’s body autonomy, instead of outright forcing their spouse to get a vasectomy with the threat of divorce if he doesn’t comply. It just goes to show that being feminist doesn’t mean your for equality at all.

Tevorino · 2024-11-06T20:20:59+00:00

If this isn't a troll, then we're looking at one of the worst negotiators in the world.

This is even worse than the person who stormed into my office, after an understandably frustrating situation that had taken place that day, and basically said "Give me a raise or I'm quitting." At least that person had the excuse of saying this in the context of being subordinate to me and not having much else to use as a bargaining chip, but it was still extremely foolish of him to just throw down that ultimatum before even seeing how I would react to "I think I deserve a raise after today."

In a relationship that is supposed to be between equal partners, this is just psychotic, which is why I'm suspecting that it could be a troll comment. If it's for real, then her husband would do well to just let her file for divorce. If he does that and it turns out that she was bluffing, he should consider filing for divorce himself because this is such a massive red flag. A normal person would have started this process by saying something like "I'm very worried about what would happen if I were to get pregnant in the current political climate. What would you think about getting a vasectomy?"

For anyone currently dating someone, or who currently has a boyfriend/girlfriend, I strongly recommend taking note of how that person asks for things. If the very first time they ask you to do a particular thing for them, or change a particular aspect of your behaviour for them, takes the form of "Do X or I'm leaving you", there is something very wrong with that person and you should probably end things. If you're going to tolerate that for the time being, then definitely don't get married to that person.

KhadgarIsaDreadlord · 2024-11-07T02:31:22+00:00

Imagine forcing a loved one onto the operating table for an unnecessary procedure. I mean all power to guys who willingly go trough with it but this should be their choice only. Funny how the women who preassure their partners into this claim to be the biggest champions of body autonomy.

NicerDicerWiserSizer · 2024-11-08T01:10:33+00:00

So much from the my body, my choice party

Mr-Stuff-Doer · 2024-11-06T17:20:58+00:00

If it was saying he has to do that or else she’s not having sex that’d be reasonable imo, but divorce for that is a bit much.

UPMooseMI · 2024-11-07T01:06:15+00:00

That last comment is exactly what the pro-life policies do. They give an ultimatum even if something bad happened - quite circular and they don’t even see it hahaha

Title	This Is Literal Abuse!
Author	MedBayMan2
Upvotes	192
Comments	24
Date	November 6, 2024 1:17 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/EverydayMisandry
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