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[–]AigisxLabrys 87 points88 points89 points 1 year ago (2 children) | Copy Link
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[–]Touchinggrasssomeday 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thank you so much, needed to have this image
[–]AigisxLabrys 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You’re welcome.
[–]Njon32 65 points66 points67 points 1 year ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I have a baby daughter. Wonder when that different world view is going to kick in.
[–]PimPedOutGeese 11 points12 points13 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I have 3. Maybe if I have another….
[–]Njon32 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]HendriXP88 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Honestly? My daughter is soon turning 4 and mine is growing rapidly. I'm fighting it, but it's there.
[–]Ancient-Accountant99 -5 points-4 points-3 points 1 year ago (3 children) | Copy Link
puberty if we are being honest
[–]Njon32 8 points9 points10 points 1 year ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I am still a man that is included in the "not all men". There's good people out there, but there's also a lot of bad people. It's okay to be cautious of strangers, but I'm not going to raise her to just always assume the worst in people.
I waited until I met my wife to have sex. That's what was best for me. I would hope that for her, but ultimately that's her choice in the end.
[–]Ancient-Accountant99 -1 points0 points1 point 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
doesnt address what I said at all but ok
[–]Njon32 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you want specific responses, use specific language. Otherwise, people will guess what you are alluding to.
[–]ChaemiR8 56 points57 points58 points 1 year ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Being cautious, being paranoid and being hateful are all different things, misandrists always come off as the last two.
[–]MSDHONI77777778909 17 points18 points19 points 1 year ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Saying "men are tr#sh" is not being cautious so yeah
[+]Ancient-Accountant99 -6 points-5 points-4 points 1 year ago (4 children) | Copy Link
strawman fallacy
[–]DemoniteBL 9 points10 points11 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The post is directly stating that "not all men" is incorrect, which implies they think all men are bad.
[–]MSDHONI77777778909 8 points9 points10 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Who? Me?
[+]Ancient-Accountant99 -8 points-7 points-6 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yeah u
[–]Manarcahm 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
strawman's phallus
[–]Ancient-Accountant99 -5 points-4 points-3 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
feminists are called hateful for being cautious and bringing up that men do these things
[–]BEEZ128 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Some men, not all men. Do you need to read that again? There is this thing called “nuance”, you should familiarise yourself with it.
[–]Own-Two6971 30 points31 points32 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is a made up scenario
no it isnt at all lol
[–]BloomingBrains 27 points28 points29 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The first two apply to me (I dont have any kids) and they dont bother me at all. Seriously, who is that insecure?
[–]MastermindX 28 points29 points30 points 1 year ago (3 children) | Copy Link
If the wife or gf is hanging out with other men all the time, whose first concern is that she will get raped? The concern is that she's cheating.
[–]meeralakshmi[S] 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Or that men only hang out with women with the intention of coming on to them whether the woman is taken or not.
[–]meeralakshmi[S] 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think cheating is what OOP is referring to. Apparently men know that men like to steal people's partners.
[–]LoveTheGiraffe 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh boy, that's why so many women use the "I have a boyfriend" line to shut down advances, while some men have used fake wedding rings to attract women in bars.
[–]vegetables-10000 21 points22 points23 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Feminists like her would be the same women that would find it odd if men weren't overprotective of their daughters and didn't want to white knight for their girlfriends.
[–]AntiFeministLib 18 points19 points20 points 1 year ago (20 children) | Copy Link
I’d be slightly wary of a strange woman chatting to my teenage son at the mall, to be fair.
[+]Ancient-Accountant99 -7 points-6 points-5 points 1 year ago (19 children) | Copy Link
us feminists dont say that you shouldnt
this is whataboutism
[–]AntiFeministLib 16 points17 points18 points 1 year ago (15 children) | Copy Link
No it is not, it’s showing that gender there is irrelevant
[+]Ancient-Accountant99 -8 points-7 points-6 points 1 year ago (14 children) | Copy Link
okay buddy
one usually ends up being much worse than the other lets not pretend like it doesnt
if you had to pick between two bad options and not knowing the final outcome for each one you would pick the woman pred approaching your son than the man pred approaching your daughter without thinking about it
[–]AntiFeministLib 11 points12 points13 points 1 year ago (13 children) | Copy Link
So your whataboutism, opening point, you now accept what is incorrect ?
if you describe them as a pred then I would be unhappy with both options and would call the police. You have already told me they are both predators and thus they belong in jail.
[+]Ancient-Accountant99 -7 points-6 points-5 points 1 year ago (12 children) | Copy Link
yeah no shit but we all know which one is more likely to have the even worse outcome
not all preds are the same obviously
[–]AntiFeministLib 13 points14 points15 points 1 year ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Oh really ? Can you give me your hierachy of CSA given some is worse than others ? I think it's all evil and the perpetrator should be in prison, but do enlighten me. Starting with "Not so bad" let me know what you think is the most acceptable CSA.
It does sound like you are saying sexual assault of boys is not as bad as sexual assault of girls, but I'm sure I'm just misunderstanding your point.
They kind of are. They should ALL be in prison.
[–]Ancient-Accountant99 -2 points-1 points0 points 1 year ago (10 children) | Copy Link
we are talking about teens here not children
I do agree its all evil and they should go to prison
but you are acting as if a male predator approaching your daughter and a female predator approaching your son would just be equally as likely to have just a bad outcomes
anyone with more than 12 brain cells knows this is not the case at all
lets say that both of these teens are dumb, go back to the their place and end up letting the preds have their way with them
who is more likely in those situations to be harmed on top of being taken advantage of?
[–]AntiFeministLib 8 points9 points10 points 1 year ago* (7 children) | Copy Link
Ok, well that's a new thing you've just added. Not that it really changes anything.
Are you for real ? CSA is evil and should NOT be OK. Again, please enlighten me and give me your hierachy of what abusing underage girls / boys is less bad than others ? I think it's ALL awful and should go to prisonm but you seem to think some is not as bad others ?
Honestly, I think you need your devices checking if you think that some sex abuse is not as bad as others.
Honestly, words fail you'd even present that as an argument. I'm speechless I admit. The police should be called and the predators should go to jail.
Well you just said the pred has their way with them so they are BOTH harmed and taken advantage of. Honestly, as a female, telling me that SA of boys is "does less harm" then I think your devices absolutely need to be searched. It's sounds, very much, like you are trying to defend sexual abuse of boys.
Sexual abuse is NOT ok and gender does not make it so. Quite frankly it's terrifying you need a random person on the internet to tell you that, when it's something that should be intrinsic to you as a person and a basic understanding of right and wrong.
[–]Ancient-Accountant99 -2 points-1 points0 points 1 year ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I have not said at any point that any of it is okay at all jesus
I am bringing up the fact that the girl in this situation would more likely to be victim of violence and to be violently raped and pregnant as well
I was asking you who was more likely to be harmed on top of the harm of being taken advantage of, which of course is the girl
I never said that rape against teen boys does less harm but if we are talking in a realistic scenario men are more likely to rape their victims violently which is even worse than ordinary rape
a lot of women basically settle for ordinary rape when a guy clearly doesnt care about consent and is being pushy and rapey because if they keep rejecting him they know there is a chance he will physically force himself on her and it would be even more of a traumatic thing so they just let him have his way
[–]AigisxLabrys 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Feminists excusing child sexual abuse again.
These feminists gotta stand up for every woman no matter what, even the criminals amongst them.
[–]MSDHONI77777778909 3 points4 points5 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If saying women are this, that will make your son safe?
[–]Ancient-Accountant99 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
what?
[–]BEEZ128 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are whataboutism
[–]shopinhower 14 points15 points16 points 1 year ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Uh… so if their wife or girlfriend cheat on them, it’s somehow the OTHER man’s fault, not the wife/girlfriend…?
[–]meeralakshmi[S] 6 points7 points8 points 1 year ago (4 children) | Copy Link
It always takes two to tango though the affair partner doesn’t always know the relationship is an affair. I agree that it doesn’t make sense to be angrier at the affair partner than your partner who cheated.
[–]Ancient-Accountant99 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (3 children) | Copy Link
but the point is that the men believe that other men would give their wives or gfs a chance to cheat to begin with
[–]meeralakshmi[S] 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Correct.
[–]Ancient-Accountant99 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
so that means that other men think men {general speaking} are bad and proves OOP right
[–]meeralakshmi[S] 3 points4 points5 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m saying what OOP thinks, not that I agree with it.
are we really playing this dumb here?
[–]IconXR 9 points10 points11 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Goomba fallacy
[–]Signal-Initial-7841 8 points9 points10 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And they ask why men are increasingly afraid of making the first move in relationship.
[–]alter_furz 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
funny how that doesn't work
[–]Ok_Structure2545 5 points6 points7 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So mothers do the same thing for their sons when it comes to other girls, right?
[–]meeralakshmi[S] 6 points7 points8 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wish more moms put as much emphasis on how their sons should be treated as how their sons should treat women, teach your son to be a good human being of course but also teach him that others should be good to him.
[–]Taco_ma 6 points7 points8 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
1- Don’t care have fun.
2- Don’t care have fun.
3- Random stranger talking to my kid? I’d be concerned for both my daughter and my son.
4- The world is dangerous for both my baby girl and my baby boy.
[–]squidhungergamesfan 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
1, 2: Don’t care and don’t see how this is relevant.
3: Yeah I would be worried if any adult started chatting with any kid, regardless of gender.
4: Can’t speak on this but the world is very dangerous for both genders
[–]MSHUser 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Out of all the things on that list, a man chatting with their teen daughter at the mall might actually be a legitimate worry. For the baby, of course you're gonna see the world differently when you're looking after children (with a few gender differences in experience of course). The rest are just reaching.
[–]Idiodyssey87 -4 points-3 points-2 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The first two sound more like judgements of women and their faithfulness.
[–]meeralakshmi[S] 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s more that men apparently think that men who hang out with women are just trying to get with them (so the man would worry that his partner’s male friend would be trying to get her to cheat with him).
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