So I posted on here the other day, sharing my video testimony about my narcissitic husband I have separated from who was/is into red pill and mgtow and how I didn't know during my marriage (if you want the whole story you can go back and see). But I'm still learning about all this, discovering new things and getting more answers to my questions to get my own closure with all this. But one thing that has left me dumbfounded without an answer that maybe you can enlighten me about is, why if my husband is into these things, including mgtow, won't he divorce me or wants me to divorce? He claims to be a Christian but I know he has not been faithful to me. Hes always said he believes in marriage for life and yet he hasn't been faithful and is a part of redpill/mgtow that doesn't exactly hold those values, in fact mgtow preaches agaisnt marriage. He didn't want to be tied down to our marriage and yet he doesn't want us to divorce either? I feel like he wants his cake and to eat it too but I don't know since we are separated now anyway. It's very confusing. Is there something im missing here? He isn't even in the same country as me anymore so divorce wouldn't really effect him i don't think. Are other mgtow and red pill men this way? Am I just this side option he's hoping he can come back to one day? Do you think with his mindset he would be fine with me divorcing? Sometimes I wonder if he's waiting for me to do it so that he can point the finger and say 'see she is like all these other women who divorce I told you so' and play the victim even more. So with your knowledge, do you think that him not divorcing me has anything to do with either the red pill and mgtow beliefs?