Madonna–whore complex - Wikipedia

One thing I never understood about the red pill is how it is all about obtaining sex from women, but if a woman actually "gives in" and has sex, she is to be looked down on by him and severely devalued, ESPECIALLY if she has her own libido and actually wanted the sex just as much as he did.

As a woman, this social trend (which is longstanding, but RP is the modern form) has left me terrified to date men, or have sex with men (even if I am comfortable) because I fear the person will treat/see me a lot worse afterward. Both FDS and RP push the idea that once a woman has sex, she has lost all negotiating power and/or leverage for the trajectory of the future of the relationship (at least in the short term), which tends to have some truth and thus harder to overcome believing, in my opinion.