Top comments have some great tips for being a better man so I thought I'd share.

Training_Passenger79 · 2022-04-28T19:27:39+00:00

I like this post! Thanks for sharing. It’s nice that the post is just asking women for their personal preferences/feelings instead of what men “should be”, because I don’t think anyone should get to tell you what you “should be”.

I share the sentiments of many of the commenters…I just wish there were less men wound up in their gender role and this idea of conforming to some kind of type. I wish there were more men who would stick up for their rights to be an individual, and try to understand women rather than alienating them, objectifying them, and trying to manipulate them.

-Faoladh- · 2022-04-29T03:16:28+00:00

All I want is a man who wont sexually assault me and will actually care about my comfort/orgasm.

WhoDoomsTheDoomer · 2022-04-28T15:23:28+00:00

Honestly I ain't gonna let some women tell me how I should be a man. Not because I think they're lesser or their opinions don't matter, but because none of them know how it is to actually be a man, same way I don't know how it is to be a woman.

I would never tell a woman how to be a 'better' woman, because that's for her to decide. My expectations mean nothing there. Same works in reverse, I get to decide how I want to live my life

Honestly kind of sick of this messaging that as a man I need to 'be better' or 'do the work'. It's patronising and doesn't make me want to listen

Top comments have some great tips for being a better man so I thought I'd share.

Crosspost "What kind of men do you wish existed more of in the world? What is the male ideal to you?" from /r/AskFeminists:

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Title	Top comments have some great tips for being a better man so I thought I'd share.
Author	Red_Trapezoid
Upvotes	17
Comments	12
Date	April 28, 2022 1:36 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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