What do you think about Corey Wayne?

kaomanmn · 2020-12-28T15:03:12+00:00

Slowly reading it?! You need to read it 10-15 times dude if you want to really understand the material to the point where it's second nature. Lol jk

I don't know, he doesn't seem overly red pill to me although he could be something of a gateway to the ideology I suppose. Most of his material just seems like repackaged David Deida with a touch of unnecessary MAGA mixed in. His useful advice is pretty obvious (focus on purpose, take care of yourself, don't be too needy or available, be willing to walk away if something isn't serving you) to the point where it definitely doesn't require multiple readings or $1000 per hour coaching sessions.

atman714 · 2020-12-28T21:19:32+00:00

Corey Wayne is actually one of the PUAs that sucked me into RedPill. I watched his stuff for about 10 months, read his book, and, I have many issues. Here are some, so, hopefully you find this helpful and know to dodge his bullshit: 1. He presents himself as infallible. If a man approaches him with a question, or if a man failed to win over a girl, Corey Wayne has the following response: "Did you read my book 10-15 times? No? You didnt study hard enough, you need to read it 10-15 times! Yes? Shes just not a high value woman if it didnt work, leave her." See how that works? He presents his information to where he is infallible and never wrong. This is ridiculous, life and people arent this black and white. It's not all or nothing like he portrays it. 2. He contradicts himself, regularly. Corey Wayne has been making videos since the early 2010s to my knowledge. If you want any decent advice, I'd say try to watch his earlier work. He was far more down to earth, lately he's a total dick to his readers. Anyway, he has said before, "Remember, always trust your inner voice or intuition. Before you trust your friends, family, or even me, go with your gut. It's usually right." Now, he says to always take his advice, and berates any guy who doesn't. If a guy doesn't take his advice, he literally mocks him on video. Again, he acts like a cult guru, he is infallible, and everyone else has to bow down. It's not hard to find contradictions either, especially not when you've watched his stuff for months like I have. 3. He has some good advice. Some. But it's mixed in with so much bullshit that theres no reason to read his material. I'll summarize every good lesson I've learned from him here in short statements: When beginning dating, talk to as many women as possible. This will allow you to see which women you like, which you don't, and will show you that you have options. Have enough respect for yourself to drop any woman who is toxic, hates your hobbies/friends, or brings you down. Everyone is different, so keep looking until you find a woman who complements you and can help you grow together. 4. His own advice shows that he is irrelevant to many men. Corey Wayne has said, "take advice from people who have what you want." To me, I didn't want to just get laid. I wanted a longterm love. And, to my knowledge, Corey has never been in a stable marriage, nor is he in a longterm relationship. You're much better off asking actual people in your life who have what you want! You really dont need him.

RedPillDetox · 2020-12-28T17:56:51+00:00

Mostly crap. Just a red pill lite dude. There are much better dating coaches out there... Mark Manson, Doctor Nerdlove...

Weebie69 · 2020-12-29T16:12:34+00:00

There all shit. This guy is exceptionally bad. Just become an interesting person and do sh*t with your life.

Mh882130 · 2020-12-28T17:39:28+00:00

His book is pretty straight forward.

Part one is all about dating and part two is all about keeping your partner (I say partner and not women because when reading dating material I try and see if the material’s advice works for other people and his does.

In dating it is more effective to listen with skepticism and test what you think is inauthentic. It is also good to make note of red flags and also find out if they were a past red flag or current one. If they broke up with an ex for instance, how did they cope? Was it effective or not? If not that would be a red flag. If too many flags show up then you need to let the potential partner know it is a conflict of interest and move on, and preferably not after you hook up with them unless it is casually agreed upon.

In part 2, the keeping part is all about finding ways to do what you did before, while also finding ways to create closeness bonding love etc, all while managing moments of crisis or events people environments that can be high conflict and can lead to a loss of that closeness love etc if nothing effectively managed.

Once people are in love they want to receive as much of it as possible as long as it is coming from a place of giving for nothing in return and not trying to get something.

That’s what I got from that book but I did not read it 10-15 times. I read it twice.

Defiant-Class6959 · 2021-01-06T23:51:56+00:00

His 3% man book is good although keep in mind he "borrowed" the majority of that info from Doc love so you may want to just go to the OG. He is also a conspiracy right wing lunatic who lives in an alternate reality. Look no further than his twitter.

Several-Inevitable51 · 2021-04-04T00:29:05+00:00

I’ve seen some of Corey’s videos and some other videos. Haven’t ever read his book or fallen for trp but I do know what trp is about. That said, I have been with girls and according to me you don’t really need a “dating guru”. Just have confidence enough to be sure of yourself and try not to let success or lack thereof with women or anyone else define you. Everyone has things they are good at and things they need improving on. Just be your true self with everyone (girls included). Chances are if you need to change a lot of your behavior to attract someone then regardless, down the line things will go south. I don’t know why people feel a so called “coach” with no scientifically proven methods will help you succeed in finding a partner. Attraction is natural and no level of “tricks/games/manipulation” will sustain it. To me the 3 biggest takeaways from Corey that I like which any decent self respecting person should already know are:

1) Don’t be scared that you will be lonely and thus make compromises. Only decide to be with people who make you feel truly happy 2) Don’t put people on a pedestal. In other words, don’t excuse stuff which would normally upset you if its done by a girl you like 3) Don’t be over eager. Take things with their own pace and just follow one another’s lead.

Keep it simple and stay sane!

hagakurejunkie · 2021-04-07T02:04:51+00:00

I listened to Corey wayne for a while, the bulk of his material, when you actually listen to it, will get you a relatively healthy relationship. It will get your ex back, and it won't be manipulative. I feel that while some of CW's titles are corny as hell, that's just the way the Youtube algorithim works these days and content creators have to use stupid titles to get clicks.

I don't think he's red pill at all though. I've probably seen about a thousand of his vids over the years.

Corey wayne actually likes women and speaks very highly of his ex girlfriends, even the ex who he essentially helped raise her daughter for a number of years.

He refers to his ex girlfriends and ex wife with great fondness and tenderness, never speaking ill of them. He actually abhors men who treat women badly and makes it a point to call them out on his channel.

That's not red pill.

All that said, if you follow Corey wayne long enough, you will NOT end up being the world's greatest pick-up artist but you will probably end up in a good relationship with a sane person who actually likes you for you. And I've done that. Thanks to him, I fixed a failing relationship with a great woman and we dated until she moved across the country.

Ironchar · 2021-04-09T07:16:20+00:00

I've followed him along enough to know that there is not only 3% man... but a 3% woman as well. Truth is most people suck, and they all have lots of problems that can prevent a relationship from ever working out. With each passing relationship I don't see how people can stay married forever, as I hear more and more of long lasting relationships fall right apart. As you improve you'll learn that there is a 3% woman as well... and Corey has stated recently that your only gonna meet a super solid female or even best friend once in a decade- the actual connection you make with someone you REALLY connect with... is sadly scarce

He is right about many things. You have to focus on yourself and kick ass in life, enjoy what you do and persevere. Do things that girls like and met them through Mutual interests- online dating just doesn't fucking cut it for even the most attractive guys. Women have to be secondary to the goals in life and things you want to do.

With all the online options (which you think would make it easier but sadly just add another layer a sheer complexity) combined with covid this is without a doubt the hardest time to date anyone and you shouldn't really be focusing on that at all. Do your best shit and go and do social events when possible and have fun- that's when you'll meet cool people and hook up and have fun.

Everything else is bullshit. Read the book once, reflect on it.... then read the parts you didn't understand or are more interested in-fuck the "cherrypicking information bit"

you shouldn't need to read ANY book 10 to 15 times.... unless if it's think and grow rich.... because that is a good book worth reading more then once- that's the fucking Bible of self help- the source of PUA material

Ari9000plus · 2022-11-02T09:23:11+00:00

Corey Wayne is the exact opposite of "redpill". He comes off as an immature douche, trying to sell some magical one size fits all advice...which has absolutely zero qualification or backing. I read his 3% man nonsense. I read it a few times actually, just because I was in disbelief at how anyone could be so inconsistent and immature. I figured "well I suppose I'm just not getting it". Nope, my instinct was right on the first read. It's a waste of time. If you gain anything from this, then you are starting from a complete and total disaster baseline...so upgrading to a failure won't be the "life change" you had envisioned. There is, however, some basic common sense in the book...none of which is hard to learn without some "coach" talking down to you.

Title	What do you think about Corey Wayne?
Author	Web_Crusader
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Date	December 28, 2020 10:24 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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