I’ve been told this by various aunties in my mom’s nail salon growing up. I’ve always performed well in school until I got sick. I’ve been told I’m smart and beautiful. All the schools I attended have been pwi.

So it’s not like I really had a chance at dating. I wasn’t hood enough for the other black kids nor Spanish enough. I wasn’t a wealthy Vera Bradley, cheerleader either. Nor was I an anime furry nerd. So I’ve never fit it.

The only guys that have asked me out are unattractive imo. Nice but not my type. I’ve been asked out less than 10 times.

I’m in THERAPY rn and have meds also. Now in college. I go to the library, gym( although I don’t see the men there because I go to classes). I don’t use the equipment. I have one club unfortunately the meetings are mostly filled with girls. I often can’t make it to events for the club as they’re on the weekend. I don’t do parties bc I’m just not a fan. I should probably join another club in my interest that has a fairly equal make to female ratio. There is a thing called wine down I could go to sometime, I’d go and have my friend introduce me.

If you’re just going to say, I’m shallow and not going to give any polite and actionable steps, keep scrolling. How can I further my development as a high value woman? Imo I don’t quite understand why a woman shouldn’t approach a man if she likes him.