A High Value Woman

So to assist people new to the concept here at FDS. Here are some questions that others may need to chime in and tell there positive experiences.

1.So what has helped you be a better high value woman?

1. What strategies or behaviors have gotten you more respect and appreciation when dating?

2. What were some good experiences you have had that help you see your progress as become a High Value woman.

For me it has been standing my ground and walking immediately when someone and a situation does not serve me. It has been stating exactly what I am interested in and not engaging in arguments over it. Asking men up front what it is they are looking for and only continue on dating the men that match what I m looking for. Letting them work for it as in being scarce. It makes them feel good even if they say they don't want to. Making them wait and turning down every other invitation because I do I fact have commits to friends, family and work. Only make my self available when I see they really are coming correct and investing by respect my schedule. Asking for there help with things and seeing if they will go the extra mile and tell them thank you and leaving before they can start the bedding process. Letting them come to me and being warm to them never hot though. Telling them I really like when they think of me when they do this and that. Positive reenforcement and rewarding there good behavior.

My experience is men will give me what I want when they are feeling good about the experience. They enjoy being a man in other words. I have had plenty of fun dates. My ex boyfriend had surprised me with a trip to the keys because I had never been there, bought me roses and romantic things to make me smile I'm sure. Another had wrote me lovely letters.

My lovely boyfriend opens doors for me, carries the heavy stuff, takes me out and is sweet to me, always willing to do be my muscle when those jars are to hard to open. He buys me little things I like or does little favors like reminding me things. Remembers all my favorite things, hugs me when I am sad. And is straight up devoted and passionate with me. He respects me and cherishes me. Other men at work are always willing to lift a finger to help me and they are very kind and sweet to me. I work with tons of men lol. And if I have a car issue or need some thing, the guys will go get there tools and push my car or check out my engine or anything really. I need furniture moved I only have to ask and they are more than happy to help me. And I always tell them how helpful and appreciative I am. And these same men know not to disrespect me because I have a zero tolerance for that crap.

Sooo what are somethings you guys have experienced? Or would like to share that could help women navigate dating, where they can spot a good guy or see a man who has good qualities worth looking into?

Edit: When I say positive reinforcement, I mean encouragement. Lol not like a dog, I love dogs so, there must be truth here lol. When your child or friend does good you acknowledge it in a positive way, So I do that with men as well. Hope this clears that up.