About His Social Media Posts: Everyone doesn’t need to know your day-to-day business, but EVERYONE should know you’re a couple. There’s a big difference between privacy and secrecy. Don’t get played.

CuriousCatNYC777 · 2020-03-03T19:57:08+00:00

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Moonxtal · 2020-03-03T23:44:07+00:00

This happened to me with my last ex. I'm not a Facebook junkie, I have one but next to never use it, he on the other hand is constantly browsing and often times posting on it. I fell for the "I like to keep my life private" line.

A few months into us dating my dog died and he made a post about it and showed it to me. In that post he referred to me as the room mate. (Yep we were living together too...I know I know...) So I called him on that post and got the... We were only dating for 2 months he wasn't ready...bla bla bla...

Cut to 6 months later, and after i suggested he at least turn his status on and to taken, he breaks up with me..shocker... I find out later (after snooping) that he never told any of his friends about me, and if he did mention me...I was still "the room mate"....

Lakersrock111 · 2020-03-04T00:03:21+00:00

A HVM will not have anything to hide on his phone either. I always offer to share mine, because I have nothing to hide.

helena939392 · 2020-03-04T12:44:43+00:00

This is very much true. During me pickmeisha-times my ex had hidden our relationship status on Facebook so only I could see it, and guess why? Because he was cheating on me with multiple LVW. I will never fall for this again, I found out about the hiding before the cheating and his excuse was "all the necessary people know about us anyway". Obviously it wasn't necessary for the side chicks to know about it.

lluviaazul · 2020-03-03T23:18:37+00:00

This is only true if you’re both active on social media. I’m on nothing so I don’t even take pictures of myself let alone us together which a lot of people might find weird. He’s on social media but posts nothing maybe twice a year if even yes I’ve seen he shows me. But yea.. if he’s addicted to social media and doesn’t make it known that you’re with him.. he’s probably talking to other women.

sewer_mermaid · 2020-03-04T17:36:49+00:00

I don’t personally like being official on social media (think ‘FB official’) because I don’t think it’s an important thing for people to know about me when they visit my profile, but I will still post pictures, etc. and expect my partner to do the same. Is that pickmeing? I don’t like being defined by my relationship status to strangers (same way I’ve used Ms. for as long as I’ve been able to pick my own title). Partners have asked in the past and it’s not something I feel comfortable with.

siberiansummer · 2020-03-03T23:28:59+00:00

Simple and spot in 👌

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