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[–]MaisiebrFDS Newbie202 points203 points204 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Doesn't demand copious amounts of free, unappreciated emotional labour, lol.
[–]FutileDeathStar[S] 65 points66 points67 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha. Yes. Let's add to the list: Usually nice to look at.
[–]BovvsetteFDS Disciple67 points68 points69 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Doesn't pressure anyone into sexual activities if they don't want to.
You can actually trust them not to abuse or take advantage of you.
Is secretive and not talkative about ”conquests”, respectful and can actually keep sexual life private.
Guaranteed satisfaction.
[–][deleted] 45 points46 points47 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"doesnt talk to other women of low quality" indeed, if a man gets entertained by pickmes, chances are that he is not good for a relationship.
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[–]FutileDeathStar[S] 14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha, this isn't me! But I'll take your upvote because I agree in spirit.
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I read this hoping it was a girlfriend asking. A guy asking me this is so cringe.
[–]pickmeprettyplease-Throwaway Account92 points93 points94 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And in my case, lasts longer than 60 seconds.
[–]AyemHerselfRuthless Strategist7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
With the way certain men value their dicks you'd think they'd learn how to use them.
[–]acadametwFDS Newbie38 points39 points40 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Friendly reminder that it's unnecessary to bring other women down just to raise yourself up.
[–]FutileDeathStar[S] 18 points19 points20 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Agreed completely. :) The last sentence could have been left out. At the same time, we can't deny that pickmes do make things worse for us as well.
[–]acadametwFDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Absolutely. It's definitely a fine line to walk and I can readily admit I've done it before myself. And shoot, some specific individuals may warrant it at times lol.
That said, I've noticed many women who are now part of this community admit to having once displayed many pick me and lvw behaviors, so I think it's a special shame when we forget that and disregard other women experiencing that same struggle as truly less-than rather than someone who's just hurt, broken, sad, probably lied to, probably abused, probably trying their best but somehow misguided.
"Forgive them, for they know not what they do." Sympathetic and superior ;)
[–]bey124FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly!!
[–]just_takin_the_dFDS Apprentice19 points20 points21 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
What kind of person even makes the effort to text this? Just move on...
[–]fulltwistinglayoutFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link
my exfuckbuddy, literally yesterday. I haven’t seen him in 8 years.
also he just got married this past fall and bought a house in my hometown. like I don’t know what he’s trying to do right now, he already told me how harsh quarantine has been for his dick. left him on Read.
[–]just_takin_the_dFDS Apprentice13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It's hard on his dick but he's just gotten married??? She's already been convinced they need to "spice things up" and have an open marriage?
Well done on not engaging, these types of men are really struggling without getting their AtTenTiOn NeEdS
[–]fulltwistinglayoutFDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Nah it’s not open, he said he literally had to remind himself not to cheat. He very loosely alluded to cheating with me. Hes also Pornsick and a “healthy” sex addict (so like a high functioning alcoholic, like that’s a good thing) too. I always knew he wasn’t the any-type-of-relationship-at-all type so I was very shocked when I found out he’d been going out with her for 5 years and that they’d be marrying. Poor sis.
[–]just_takin_the_dFDS Apprentice9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Blergh. Send screenshot to wife (if safe for you) and block him? Get away from this negative energy.
[–]fulltwistinglayoutFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Considered it for a sec, but I don’t have space for that kinda heat esp WHERE I LIVE WHAT THE FUCK WHY IS HE HERE. Him being perpetually single was not one sided, I knew a lot of other girls he’d been with because he was like some legenedary hipster dick in the late 2000s and none of us wanted anything else from him. His wife has to be dicknotized and knowing him, she’s probably really young. Anyway I deleted the convo and he admittedly made himself look stupid a few times so I don’t think he’ll be contacting me. Also he knows I’m celibate anyway.
[–][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A guy I don't even know who evidently graduated the year after me at my university reached out on LinkedIn. He was asking about career stuff so alright, cool, we start talking.
Out of the blue, he mentions his upcoming wedding and his fiancee's problems in bed. I have rarely blocked a man so fast. I had whiplash.
[–]geologykittyFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
leave him on read forever.
[–]FutileDeathStar[S] 19 points20 points21 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Just a fun reminder. I'm guessing it isn't real.
[–]just_takin_the_dFDS Apprentice14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It was more of a rhetorical question. But we all know there's a certain types of men out there who think women should be ashamed of using vibrators.
[–]MendocinoPurple13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The hating on other women really doesn’t need to happen. If you’re a real HVW then you will see that they’re just not at your level and leave them alone or try to help. No high value human being needs to put anyone else down to lift themselves up. It’s that simple.
[–]JuddHerpatowFDS Disciple3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would have skipped the "Doesn't make me cry." if you admit that they still win. I would have just said "It's 100% competent at giving a woman an orgasm" *drops mic*
[–]Aurora_BorealizFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Doesn’t project its personal issues onto me and then treat me as if I’m the cause of its issues.
[–]Brad_BuryFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Doesn't talk to woman of low quality"... ewww What?
Sorry but no so-called "high value woman" talk like that. No strong, assertive and proud women, throw other women under the bus in face of men. Never.
It's a "not like other girls" pick-me move.
My God.
I really don't understand what's happening on FDS since a few days. But it's really concerning if we are at some point where we have to remind such basinc things.
Sorry but this post is counter productive, and doesn't belong here.
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[–]MaisiebrFDS Newbie202 points203 points204 points (2 children) | Copy Link
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[–]BovvsetteFDS Disciple67 points68 points69 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]pickmeprettyplease-Throwaway Account92 points93 points94 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]AyemHerselfRuthless Strategist7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]acadametwFDS Newbie38 points39 points40 points (3 children) | Copy Link
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[–]acadametwFDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]bey124FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]just_takin_the_dFDS Apprentice19 points20 points21 points (9 children) | Copy Link
[–]fulltwistinglayoutFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points (6 children) | Copy Link
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[–]geologykittyFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]FutileDeathStar[S] 19 points20 points21 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]just_takin_the_dFDS Apprentice14 points15 points16 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MendocinoPurple13 points14 points15 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]JuddHerpatowFDS Disciple3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Aurora_BorealizFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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