Hi everybody, Just need your opinion on this situation... Here is some back story: I’m a 22 y/o female, in the real estate industry, been in it for about two years going on to three. I’ve made a lot of sales according to my office given for my age and just working off of strangers...Anyways, I want to be THAT PERSON people go to buy or sell property from & im working extremely hard on working on myself & my business. So, we are into “self/development” & getting a coach to help us grow faster since they have the experience & have done it all and have made all the mistakes we want to avoid. Me & another agent clicked. He’s 2x my age. Very disciplined, makes 2x sales than me, have been in the business for almost 20 years & obviously makes more money than me. We are doing what they call “accountability partner” someone who makes sure you’re on your shit & on the grind. We talk everyday because we are suppose to keep in contact every single day & text/email & meet in person occasionally.
So, recently he’s been telling me that he has a crush on me (he’s married).. I guess him and his wife have an open relationship & they have had girlfriends. His wife has noticed that he had taken an interest & asked me to exercise with her which I did. She’s a sweet person but I feel she allows him to have gfs because she’s so Inlove with him and she wants him around but is not okay with it.... Anyways, he’s been helping me soooo much & I feel like I’ve grown so much even though it’s been about 3 weeks of this accountability. We went drinking yesterday with his wife of course & I don’t like him in that sense only BUSINESS. So, he always tells me I look great which at first I thought he was being nice. But yesterday he was making sexual comments & told me if I wanted to pursue a relationship which I absolutely don’t want to do. But then again he said if I don’t then that is fine & to tell him that I just want to work in business so that he can stick to professionalism. Regardless, should I just cut ties?? & was I being groomed??
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