Apparently, your husband posting unflattering pictures of you is "relationship goals"

delightfulcheer · 2020-03-31T19:37:37+00:00

Honestly, "relationship goals" to me would be my husband posting flattering pictures, but to each their own, I suppose...

an0nny · 2020-04-01T00:09:07+00:00

He doesn't want other men seeing her as attractive. He wants her self esteem to be lower. He wants control.

GlamorKiss · 2020-04-01T00:03:19+00:00

Something about the fact that he posts so many of these unflattering photos of her just seems kinda off to me. Like it’s embarrassing and offensive and at worst he seems controlling in a weird way and at best just immature and not realising it’s embarrassing for his wife

Maybe it’s just me and I don’t get the light hearted humor in it

I get that in a LTR you have to have a sense of humor and not always be uptight but I don’t get how you can post pics of your spouse making super goofy unflattering faces and still find them super sexy

ceramicunicorn · 2020-04-01T02:27:48+00:00

Of course one should have veto power over what gets posted of them, but I just see someone looking silly? Like I wish my “unflattering” photos were that cute 😅

idiosyncraticg1 · 2020-04-01T14:02:55+00:00

This is like Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively. A funny pic or two would be okay, but posting a bad photo ALWAYS would just piss me off. It’s over the line.

GlamorKiss · 2020-04-01T00:16:42+00:00

Poor Hilary, she seems like a sweet woman and plenty of people think she’s more sexy/beautiful now than she was in her Lizzie McGuire days so she could totally do better (I mean every woman deserves better as well)

nzsmbgm · 2020-04-01T06:36:06+00:00

Ugh, miss me with that BS. It just reeks of insecurity.

EfficientTackle · 2020-04-01T14:41:26+00:00

He's trying to bring her down

2020-04-02T00:59:26+00:00

I had a sister who would purposely put the worst photos of me up on social media. Yes, her feed was filled with "look at me" selfies.

Stopped talking to her a few years ago. The photo-social-media-cyber-bullying was just the top of the shit sundae.

jazzyjazcons · 2020-04-01T03:17:07+00:00

This obviously wouldn’t go well on every woman. So, I can only hope based on the relationship, he knew she wouldn’t mind.

But I don’t necessarily see anything wrong with this, IMO.

Radtron3000 · 2020-04-02T11:12:17+00:00

He's a touring musician so...

Radtron3000 · 2020-04-02T11:13:48+00:00

Anyway she still looks amazing

Title	Apparently, your husband posting unflattering pictures of you is "relationship goals"
Author	delightfulcheer
Upvotes	39
Comments	20
Date	March 31, 2020 7:37 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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