Hello,

I just want to understand a certain man in his late 30's...

We met, hit it off, then he went back home, we did the long-distance thing, met up a month and a half later, it was weird, he was terrible to me, I block him, a year later give or take, he gets unblocked bc of tech issues, we talk once in a while, he asks me to stay with him, I decline, I end up in his city, eventually, we make plans to meet-up, he stands me up, ok whatever, a month later he "fake texts" me, I ignore, he fake texts me again using my middle name, I call him out and he's like isn't that your middle name blah, blah, blah...

I lost my feelings for him and was willing to use him for fun, maybe even rub in his face that all he is good to me for is sex, judge me... But if you are going to waste my time and not have the decency to cancel, that's it, I am done- that is my policy across the board.

My question:

Are women that fucked up that they would continue to entertain contact with someone who treats them like this? Why stand me up to then "fake text" me, is it just a game? My time is precious and I personally wouldn't spend it trying to desperately "fake text" to get an answer. Especially someone that I stood up. I don't understand this behavior and just want some insight.

I truly want some insight, are people that desperate or terrible?