Why do I have to be the one that is more thoughtful of clothes laying across the back of chairs, overflowing trash bins and shoes kicked off (why not neatly sit them there)? Why does it have to be an “honor” for me to want to clean up behind you because you’re the best musician to her exists? He has so much to say about his concerns about my behavior (I will admit I need to get my “crazy” in order). I started as a LVW when I met him and our fights guided me here and now I feel much more HV. It’s too late to put my foot down on my new standard, so he thinks I’m just all over the place.