“DoNt LoOk FoR a SeRiOuS rElAtIoNsHiP oN tInDeR”

mightbethrowawayyy · 2020-06-30T05:26:44+00:00

Because they are garbage humans. You don’t have to explain yourself to them. Just unmatch when their behaviors don’t match up to your standards

shade_of_ara · 2020-06-30T08:18:24+00:00

I would imagine that the guys saying this see it as a hookup app rather than as a dating app.

You know, the same guys who will breadcrumb you and use PUA strategies specifically to get women to believe in a fantasy relationship they're not actually in, and then say "what do you expect from Tinder?"

Saitschik · 2020-06-30T05:36:35+00:00

Misogyny and lacking the ability to see women as humans. Probably also some form of Madonna-whore complex

warinmymind94 · 2020-06-30T08:12:21+00:00

Just be honest with what you want upfront and the second they say things that dont meet your standards or give some BS sass like some look for a serious relationship in tinder please do not say a word more. Dont explain yourself, dont make a clap back, etc just block and ghost. But also beware of the guys that will just parrot back mimicking whatever you say you want. This is why it's also key to ask them directly "what are you looking for?" If its wish washy then it's that they are taking whatever they can get in terms of hookups. Guys that want relationships will show it by acting the part.

saltyandpepa · 2020-06-30T14:29:22+00:00

I know exactly what you mean. The fact of using Tinder makes them view you as a human fleshlight. Respect and decency should be a given no matter where you met!

Pasdepromesses · 2020-06-30T05:23:31+00:00

I stopped using OLD because the guys are usually LVM. Tinder and Happn are even worse.

NoThisIs-Patrick · 2020-06-30T16:11:07+00:00

Because so many low value scrotes think Tinder is for free prostitution.

You aren't in the wrong. Many people look for different things on Tinder. I'd like to say the hookup people all go there, but they're on most of the big apps anyway.

plembb · 2020-06-30T05:51:30+00:00

A friend of mine found an AMAZING HVM on tinder. I’m actually secretly in love with him and I’d never act on it, but damn she lucky.

Suspicious_Trick · 2020-06-30T17:12:03+00:00

They can fuck off while you keep your standards high ☺️My brother (absolute hvm) met his wife (a total 👸🏻) on tinder and for years now they have had the cutesiest most respectful relationship I know of. Personally I don’t use it but there are in fact SOME good dudes on there!

Wu-Zetain-for-you · 2020-06-30T14:33:26+00:00

I found my HVM on Tinder so they do exist.

Title	“DoNt LoOk FoR a SeRiOuS rElAtIoNsHiP oN tInDeR”
Author	throwaway1456738
Upvotes	111
Comments	14
Date	June 30, 2020 3:15 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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