I'm pretty new to this sub and haven't had time to look through everything yet. My main question is about a woman's kinks and what the stance is on kinks like that. I'm talking about things that are sort of grey area kinks, like having sex without fully undressing, hair pulling, leaving on stockings/fishnets/heels, etc. Also is it impossible for women that enjoy more serious kinks to fully adhere effectively to FDS?

I mean there's no denying that there are sexual preferences that bleed into kinks and kinks that could be confused for preference; where is the line drawn? From what I've seen, most of the examples here of male kinks have been really obscene, degrading, dehumanizing, and extreme, and those being huge red flags is very understandable. But what about kinks that women have? Like wanting a man to be able to pick you up during sex?

I feel like there's a laundry list of kinks that you wouldn't want a good man to want of you, but where do our own sexual preferences fall?