Ghosting

PaciencaYFe · 2020-04-12T14:22:29+00:00

Girl if y'all haven't met yet it's not ghosting. Don't put so much energy into a guy you don't even know, there's literally thousands of other ones to swipe on and distract yourself

pickmieshaexorcist · 2020-04-12T13:45:04+00:00

Don’t ask or go chasing them though. No response is a response. Men don’t care when you come at them with paragraphs demanding explanations. At best, they’ll just lie to spare your feelings. Retain your dignity and onto the next.

And I don’t know, maybe I am a jerk, but if you guys were just “talking” and never met in person (sure because corona but still), it’s not “ghosting”. You had a romantic pen pal thing going. Would it have been nice for him to give you a heads up? Yeah but I don’t think either of you owe each other much at this stage.

ethnicallyabiguous · 2020-04-12T13:47:16+00:00

He more than likely was quarantined with his gf/wife.

He more than likely had no good intentions with you and you were love bombed at first. You can’t focus on wondering why he didn’t respond or why he ghosted. Just be grateful you got out, and are not the one he’s quarantined with.

swim_and_sleep · 2020-04-12T15:58:27+00:00

I think most men in OLD only talk to women to get sex out of it, and now they can’t get sex so they just stop talking because they’re not interested in getting to know us at all

Leavyx · 2020-04-12T15:25:40+00:00

He doesn't tell you he lost interest because he wants to save you whenever he can talk you into his bed again. Block him and be done with him. Or next time tell him you lost interest as soon as he stops investing.

blackredrosepetals · 2020-04-12T14:18:33+00:00

that’s disgusting. human decently costs nothing. this isn’t a reflection on you OP. block and move on, don’t let him waste anymore of your time or energy.

Soulsalts · 2020-04-12T16:23:26+00:00

He only wanted to have sex. When he saw that it wasn't going to be easy, he stopped making any effort.

Cobmobster21 · 2020-04-13T01:42:00+00:00

I realize that when they pull back you gotta do the same. Most guys can’t process their emotions in a healthy way. So instead of being courteous and communicating they’ve lost interest, they take the coward’s way out. Some don’t end it on purpose so they can come back later. When you start asking for reasons why they’ve distancing themselves it’s usually the “I’m busy” line. They’re obvious not that busy. At that point you need to put on your big girl pants and walk away. If he really wanted to know you he keep in contact.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2020-04-12T22:43:17+00:00

No response is a response. It’s though to not message him, to not say all the things you want to say, but you have to.

Pipulka · 2020-04-13T15:08:22+00:00

This is pick me behavior. You should be talking to so many guys that you don’t notice if one falls off. How do you catch feelings for someone that gives you their ass to kiss?

Title	Ghosting
Author	Pipulka
Upvotes	37
Comments	49
Date	April 12, 2020 1:32 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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