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GLOBAL RESISTANCEethnicallyabiguous/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:57 PM
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STAY WOKEethnicallyabiguous/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:48 PM
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SCROTES MADethnicallyabiguous/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 04:29 PM
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REMINDER 👑ethnicallyabiguous/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 04:08 PM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKethnicallyabiguous/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 02:13 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYethnicallyabiguous/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 12:18 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYethnicallyabiguous/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 06:28 PM
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LIES MEN TELLethnicallyabiguous/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 04:00 AM
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NOTHING BUT FACTSethnicallyabiguous/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 12:06 AM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEethnicallyabiguous/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 12:54 AM
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STRATEGYethnicallyabiguous/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 04:35 AM
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FDS HUMORethnicallyabiguous/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:00 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?ethnicallyabiguous/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:26 AM
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FDS MOVIES & TVethnicallyabiguous/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 01:40 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESethnicallyabiguous/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 03:49 PM
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FDS ANTHEM 🎶ethnicallyabiguous/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 05:16 PM
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LVM LOGICethnicallyabiguous/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 06:38 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESethnicallyabiguous/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 02:21 PM
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I’ll have to check that out.
/r/askFDS03/01/22 06:35 PM
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I heard this from a doctor that I love, Dr. Gabor Matè. He has a book called ‘When the Body Says No’ that explores the stress/trauma and auto immune disease connection. It’s been really insightful to read. You can also view a lot of his talks on YouTube. One of the most poignant things he says is that there are two types of anger, healthy and unhealthy anger. The first type of anger is a response to a boundary violation. Ex 1: "Hey! Don’t touch the back of my legs!" This anger dissipates as soon…
/r/askFDS03/01/22 12:09 AM
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This would be true if us FDSers wanted equality instead of equity. Women are conditioned by society to care for others needs. Women in general make less than men in the same career. Women have pink tax. Single women live longer than married women. Men can’t carry babies 50% of pregnancy. We have a lot more on the line than men all together. I think there is no problem in asking a man to invest time and money where we wouldn’t for women. I would say this is unfair if he was making 65k a year or l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:28 AM
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There is this song by Mungo Jerry that has irked me forever. The lyrics are: “If her daddy’s rich, take her out for a meal. If her daddy’s poor, just do what you feel.” I admit this line of thinking has had me scared to date men. My daddy was not rich and I’m attractive. I feel like a use and abuse target is on my back. I’ve been bamboozled by so many future fakers before that just wanted to “add a piece to their collection” (a lyric from another song I hate).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 03:38 PM
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“Do a lot of men try and get women drunk? Of course! But not all men!!!” He really doesn’t listen to what comes out of his mouth .🤦🏽‍♀️🙄😒 What is the acceptable percentage of creeps in which I’m justified having standards with men? I think when you say “A lot”, we have the right to be cautious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 11:00 PM
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I know plenty of LVM that like to suck on the teat of greater men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:40 PM
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Yep. That’s when he got the Unfollow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:50 AM
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The problem is that black women have been told that there are not very many educated black men to go around. Kevin Samuels tells women they need to lower their expectations because the average black man makes 45K a year. There is a huge push all for women to not have standards, but black women are not allowed to be picky at all. We are constantly told that we are the most likely to end up alone, out of all ethnic groups. I f@€king hate that narrative, and I’d rather end up alone than settling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:36 PM
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I had to stop following him a long time ago because of his bs. Oh btw he sure fell into my dm’s on Instagram knowing I was interracial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:30 PM
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For LVM to qualify women as Relationship worthy, it means qualifying them as worthy of being treated with dignity, respect, and care. Oh they’ll still use you, but you don’t deserve any of those things that should be extended to you out of human decency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:21 PM
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My ex told me he knows how to treat women because he has a mother and a sister. His sister lived a street over from him, and his mother was around quite often. He was golden to them, but treated me terribly. Apparently, it was too much for him to have emotional intelligence with me, but he had those things for sis and mom because they are family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:36 PM
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Thinking back on the Beauty and the Beast. We really have been manipulated from childhood to accept ugly, mean men and “love them through their issues”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:04 PM
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This is a take from the Scary Stories To Tell in the Dark series. Jenny and the green ribbon is the name of the short story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:48 PM
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That asshat thought he was the gold medal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:35 AM
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But that is the point. If she’s in front of thousands of people, she is less likely to say no. These LVM know what they’re doing when they propose in front of a large group of people; they always love a sure bet. Peer pressure just stacks the odds in their favor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:33 AM
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This makes me think of the immigrant women who were detained in Georgia and given forced hysterectomies. Last year!! I hate it here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:06 PM
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Holding hands, sitting next to, sharing desert with, peeing in the urinal next to, eating bananas in front of, I could go on forever. Bro law makes no sense whatsoever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:20 AM
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Anything Sade. Cherish the day, the whole love deluxe album truthfully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:37 AM
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God I miss men of the 90s. I’m sure they weren’t all great, but it’s a hell of a lot better than it is now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:57 PM
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Dicklick is my personal favorite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:53 PM
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It almost seems like *It is. They do. Give up on the idea of “trying to get men to understand”. They will do whatever mental gymnastics they need to do to ensure their peepees can get wet. Just be glad you have FDS, and consider it an unexpected, pleasant surprise if you talk to a guy who has any amount of empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:45 PM
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Every time I have a conversation with men about why so many of them play games in relationships, the response is usually “wEll We tRiEd tO Be niCe buT WoMeN chOsE bAD BoyS!” Me: So you’re saying you allow women to determine if you are a person of good moral character or not? Why not be a good person for goodness sake? Guys: well U WamAn sTarTeD iT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:58 PM
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My LVEX pulled it off, and when I calmly asked him about it, he said it was an “unspoken agreement”. He said he looked at me when he did it? and thought I saw him do it. I asked him if he thought that excuse would hold up in court if I pressed charges. He got really scared and told me I was horrible for threatening rape accusations against a Black man. 🙄 I left him after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:09 AM
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If anybody wants to support another great organization that rehabilitates/ empowers victims of sex trafficking, I wholeheartedly suggestthistle farms. You can find a lot of their products at Whole Foods in the United States.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:29 PM
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Here’s another example from ancient civilization . Think ofThe birth of Venus in Greek mythology) “In myth, Venus-Aphrodite was born, already in adult form, from the sea foam (Greek αφρός, aphros) produced by the severed genitals of Caelus-Uranus.[11] Roman theology presents Venus as the yielding, watery female principle, essential to the generation and balance of life. Her male counterparts in the Roman pantheon, Vulcan and Mars, are active and fiery. Venus absorbs and tempers the male essence,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:50 PM
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EverAfter is my favorite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:57 PM
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< It’s one thing to be a masculine man and therefore presenting typical masculine traits like taking the lead, having provider tendencies and other stuff I think can be of value. I have found that most men who can do the things you listed have no need to show domination. It’s usually the LVM Dusties, who have no control over any other aspect of their lives that want to be Doms. I have found more Men who are Dominant in every other area of their lives who are begging to be submissive because they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:43 PM
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They have a Reddit sub as well. It’s hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:50 PM
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You can follow r/menwritingwomen on Reddit. It’s awesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:49 PM
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I LOVE THIS SHOW! I was gonna bring it up here too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:46 PM
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Half??????? Oh honey this is Reddit. Try 90% of the guys on here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:15 PM
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Ha! I once asked this question of men: “Women have tons of men from Derek Jackson, Tony Gaskins, Kevin Samuels,shumakeway etc.... Can any of you name a woman you listen to for advice on women??” Every one of the Men: “No” “ we would much rather listen to a guy who is doing it right versus a female, because they don’t know what they want.” Me: “So you listen to Kevin Samuels, who’s been divorced twice?” Men:.............. Me:🙄😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:07 PM
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It’s because he’s more than likely over 50. He doesn’t want to be a pervert and go for an 18-year-old. He has standards you know! He’s not like those other guys!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:47 PM
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Or prostitution. And men are almost exclusively consumers of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:29 PM
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there are ways to prevent that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 05:02 AM
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*Only dogs and women are expected to love you unconditionally FTFH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:19 AM
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The thing is we were all taught that the only 100% sure way of not getting pregnant is abstinence. It even says it on the side of most contraception packages. So I can’t help but get really irritated when I hear a man say “sHe TrApPed mE iNtO hAVinG a KiD!” 🙄😒Sir you could have gotten a vasectomy, or you could’ve been abstinent If you were really serious about being child free. You chose to take a risk by having sex with a woman. Your child’s mother did not trap you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:32 AM
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You forgot you have to ask nicely in a tone befitting a lady, otherwise it’s considered slander.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:46 AM
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We always tell women to keep their legs closed but we never tell men to keep their legs closed. We say boys will be boys. We encourage boys to go out and “sew their wild oats”. Sewing usually refers to a seed. But there is still no correlation in their minds between having sex and the possibility of conceiving a child
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:42 AM
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Oooooooh I can tell from the number of comments that are supposed to be on here, that the LVM are having a field day with this one. Thank you mods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:33 AM
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She’s fishing for new clients.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 08:05 PM
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Aaaaaaannnnnndddd more strategizing to safely live on this earth. 😩 I’m so sorry you experienced this sis. It’s not fair. I’m ready for women only cities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 07:02 PM
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I’m surprised they haven’t tried to sue for being denied access to women’s locker rooms and bathrooms. At what point does discrimination end and we realize that there are some spaces that are meant to be exclusive to women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:40 PM
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That was my favorite thing about living in Dubai. There are women only cars in their rail system. There are women only spas and salons. There are women only lunch spaces at hotels because women want a place to wear regular clothes and not have to cover with an Abaya. Those places were heaven to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:35 PM
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Absolutely. Key words you used are “their lives”. As long as people in power aren’t effected, who cares if the womenfolk suffer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 08:04 AM
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As Martin Luther king said “Freedom from oppression is rarely given by the oppressor, it must be demanded by the oppressed.” And you see how he was treated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:48 AM
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I’m ok with his preference. I have mine. But the truth is there is far more he didn’t notice about his girlfriend than he talks about here. He never saw her as a person. He’s only talking of his likes and desires. He saw her as his ‘live action Barbie doll’ and jumped. I am so excited for the next man she ends up with. Screw this selfish prick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:08 AM
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Sometimes I feel like we will get legislation for complementary sex dolls /sex work for men’s needs before any meaningful legislation/enforcement of assault and murder of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:59 PM
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You mean LVM like to move the goalpost to suit their whims? 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:50 PM
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I think about this within the middle eastern Muslim religion. Women wear the Abaya , Niqab and hijab but still are not free from sexual assault. I’m not knocking their religion, but pointing out that it doesn’t matter how covered up you are. Men will still find a way to sexualize you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:08 AM
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I hope you posted this under the vice Twitter post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:59 AM
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Unfortunately your comments didn’t fit her narrative of all FDSers being hopelessly single man haters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:56 AM
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OH GOODY! I can’t wait for all the new FDS subscribers from this free press! Thank you Streisand effect!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:25 AM
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I would love to reclaim the word audacity Audacity n 1 : the quality or state of being audacious: such as a : intrepid boldness b : bold or arrogant disregard of normal restraints We have allowed that word to have such a negative meaning because of LVM and their proclivities towards sexual assault and over all indecency. It’s time that we be audacious and so in touch with our own desires. I like to think I have an arrogant disregard for the normal restraints of a patriarchal society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 04:30 AM
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But why laugh though? Is it a lol to keep from crying?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 12:56 AM
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We’ve all known this this, but what bothers me is how’s many men who use morality to manipulate women knowing they are not moral. Like the guys who tell a woman it’s too dangerous to drive home after they’ve had a drink because men want to sleep with you. They could call an Uber if they really cared. But alas they’d rather make the woman feel guilty. Or the puppy dog faces when women decide to leave their abusive/cheating/dead weight husbands. “How could you give up on us?!?!” Men are very comfo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:15 PM
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Basically he rates women about the same as the incels on the rate me subreddit. He thinks Beyoncé is an 8. Once again, I’m not trying to attract 100,000 men that think I’m an 8 or better, I’m trying to attract one that thinks I’m an 11. But Kevin doesn’t understand that it isn’t a numbers game for women. Quantity is not quality. He lives in Atlanta where every woman has been indoctrinated with the “ratio disparity” between eligible black men and women. So unfortunately black men are drowning in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:56 PM
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Oh man this is like balm for my jaded soul. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:18 AM
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Awesome. Btw did you ever try that rosemary lemon coffee cake? Every time I see your username I get a craving to make it. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:55 AM
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The One reason that their arguments against us will always fall flat is because our title is female dating strategy. We effectively don’t hate men and believe there are good ones out there. We just no longer tolerate the mass majority of skidmark having, abusive, low value men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:50 AM
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Also they make the point that men see it as a form of ownership of those women close to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:47 AM
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Also, Marilyn Manson is on that which sucks. They fired Orlando Jones character because he was too black radical, but I doubt they’ll fire Marilyn Manson for being the piece of shit he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:45 AM
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I don’t have respect for men who are only considerate of their mother, sister, and nieces. I have had LVMexs that put their family on a pedestal, and still had room to treat me like shit. The way they are able to separate the two is mind boggling sometimes. I hate it when men use the fact that they have a mother and a sister as a pick up line or deflection from their bad character. Just because you have those doesn’t mean you can’t be misogynistic and contributing to a system of patriarchy. Sorr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:39 AM
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Do you have your ‘fuck off’ money? There is no time I can think of when you should be told “learn to reign it in” when your boundaries have been crossed. Do they know you don’t have job options? Because it sounds like they are treating you like you don’t. The funny thing about that is I have been very accommodating in my jobs and it has gotten me nowhere. Meanwhile the women who were considered “bitchy“, who did things I would be scared to do for fear of being fired never were fired. Their bound…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:58 AM
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Did you guys see the deli turkey meat left on the counter?!?? It’s literally spoiling the food that was bought! You couldn’t be bothered to put away some food to keep it from going bad?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:10 PM
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Honey so many men here in Atlanta want you to bow down and kiss their ring because they have not dated outside their race. Meanwhile they are OK putting black women into Situationships, dogging them out and making them feel like they have to be OK with him having multiple women because he’s a prize. (Cue Kevin Samuels). Meanwhile, our standards are too high, and we have to settle for a cheating man who’s median income is 45k. Black men in Atlanta are the proverbial ‘hares’ and the tortoise and t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:10 AM
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Anytime a man makes that argument about the inflation of diamond rings and how it’s all a scam by DeBeers, I tell them I will gladly accept a house in my name that will remain mine if/after divorce. Those have and retain value if that’s what he’s worried about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:08 AM
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And those are the compliments I want to see more of. You respect her because she is always trying to improve herself. You respect that she sets boundaries. 💐💐💐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 07:15 AM
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The issue is that men see dating women as a numbers game; that’s why they complain about paying for dates and swipe right on every woman to see who bites. They are casting wide nets to pull in options and choose from the best. I am considered conventionally attractive. I won’t bother to rate myself, but I’ve never had to cast a net. The fish jump into my boat so to speak. I’m not looking for a large populous of men to think I’m a 8 or higher in hopes they treat me better. All I need is one man t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 07:12 AM
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I had a LVM that told me he refused to read any fiction books because it was terrible to fill your mind with things that did not grow and add to your intelligence. Same guy had a spank bank of like 3000 porn videos that he refused to get rid of. When I attempted to let him know that porn reduces gray matter in your brain, he would not hear any of it.... But my fictional novels were the real issue🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 01:09 AM
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|Most men get so excited at the idea of a pick me wanting sex with them, they’ll cheat on their ideal partners with women they’d be ashamed to be seen with. I’ll never forget the prostitute that Hugh Grant chose to cheat on Elizabeth Hurley with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:57 AM
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The key word was ‘only’. I understand the nature of a child’s relationship to their parent is built on sacrifice, but there was nothing listed here that talks about how great she is apart from what she shields her son from seeing. I always hear about how dad’s tell great jokes, hunt with the best of them, take no shit, are intelligent, great artists, dominant in their respective fields, etc in addition to those sacrifices listed above. Moms......... well they loved us unconditionally. Consistent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:42 AM
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I agree. What’s funny is when I told him I wasn’t going to date him anymore, he told me his children’s mother was calling him, and he had to get off the phone. I rolled my eyes and knew for certain I made the right choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:41 PM
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I have a guy that I’ve known for 15 years. He came back around saying that he realizes I am the one, I am his person and his unicorn. I have been on the fence about dating a man with kids. I have dated men with kids before and I have never liked it but I still wanted to be open because I’m in my 30s and there are rarely men without kids in my age range. But one week into dating and he constantly was hanging up with me rather quickly because his daughters were calling him. So I told him I can’t d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:32 PM
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These are the only things that give me a glimmer of hope in men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:14 PM
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I second this. Give her the book. And tell her about FDS. It may not sink in right away but you are sowing a seed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:02 AM
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How much you wanna bet this Dick Gardener was abusing his kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 09:42 PM
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Yes it was his company unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 08:38 PM
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Oh honey, I can see where at least three men have tried to comment but moderators are quick to delete. From what I can see from the notifications on my phone it’s: ”Men don’t even assume women are a hoes because they hang around them!” And “let me mansplain to you why there’s false equivalencies here.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 09:27 AM
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I am interracial so I can only speak for my experience. In pre-black panther years I got the “ Oooooooohhhhh what are you mixed with?” Post black Panther era, where LVBM are shamed for dating outside their race, coupled with BW’s rise in stock has them still wanting to have sex with me, but asking me to deny/apologize for my Italian side, so they can feel better about dating me. The mental gymnastics they have to do so they don’t feel like a traitor is my one of my red flags now because it’s hap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:29 AM
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Truthfully I want to start treating scrotes like they do single mothers. “Well if your wife left you, what makes you think I want you?!?!” One woman’s trash is STILL another woman’s trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:17 AM
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He is my father’s exact age. I’m trying to figure out how he was going to look my father in the eye, do business with him, knowing he was trying date me?!?!? The cognitive dissonance is staggering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:14 AM
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I’m in my mid-30s. I just called up a company to get wood chips delivered to my father. This 58-year-old man started trying to vet me for a potential relationship. I made no claim of looking for a relationship or being available. He said “oh mid 30s is perfect! I wouldn’t go below 30 because I have a daughter and that’s just sick.” Sir. 😒🙄You have at least 20 years on me, but that is not crossing the line?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:08 AM
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Guys be like “it’s just a piece of paper! “But I bet you they realize the significance of the title to a car or the deed to the house they own. Those are just pieces of paper too, but they are very important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 04:39 AM
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And the judge was trying to cosign that 50/50 arrangement at first. The world is full of pickmeishas. The side chick called her to say “we have something in common” and then she acts like she didn’t know?!?! I keep hoping this is fake, but we all know there are LVM and LVW out there like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:42 AM
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part two is just sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 04:01 AM
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I mean guys are quick to run around telling friends and family “we’re pregnant”. 💁🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 07:50 PM
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If I’m pregnant with a baby then they are pregnant with a baby. I’m only carrying 4 1/2 months playboy! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 05:47 PM
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I thought prime is selling it for $19.99? I could have swore that is where I saw it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 08:09 AM
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And jobs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:37 AM
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So does anyone want to bring her to FDS? I don’t have Tik Tok or I would’ve done it already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 06:03 AM
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Do you ever wonder what people would be saying about you if they had a chance to review and inspect your life as a whole? Public scrutiny can find fault in us all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:56 AM
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The first line “Looking back it’s embarrassing” Last line “It was worthless. I found myself in affectionate but chaste relationships”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:52 AM
23

Do y’all remember that song bambi by Jidenna? I fucking hated that song. It is literally what this guy is talking about. In the video/song, he talked about being a cheater and a liar and it’s in his blood because his granddaddy had seven wives. But when she was at her wedding day, he literally showed up drunk as shit and told her she can’t leave him. Like that toxicity was romantic. Why the fuck is the sooooo common?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:37 AM
26

I worked at an ice skating rink one year and there was this old man who was hanging around. I kept watching him to see if he had grandkids there, but no, he was by himself. I decided then and there I was going to forsake all my other work and watch him like a hawk. I caught him offering hot chocolate to a little girl by the bathroom, with nobody else around her, whispering in her ear. I walked up to the little girl and told her to find her mother, then went absolutely apeshit. I told him we have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:31 AM
9

I really wish we had some sort of FDS sorority network where we could do things like networking and offering referral letters. I would love to help you out if that was my field.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:44 AM
13

Yeah I thought I could take the one girl. I fought because I had no choice, but four against one kind of made it unfair. Now I have kitty claws and a gun. Fuck with me if you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:12 PM
90

Yeah, unfortunately if you called him out on it, he would only take it out on her. So sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:03 AM
107

I didn’t get c cups until eighth grade, so about 13. But I always had a very curvy behind. I just got used to the boys in my grade grabbing me. One boy did this to me and a male teacher saw it. The teacher asked me if he had grabbed me while everyone was in the hallway. I was so embarrassed at the attention, but I said “yeah”. The boy got suspended for three days, but word got around to his twin sister that I “ratted” on him. She waited until I went to the restroom and got three girls to gang up…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:28 AM
5

There used to be the show on FX, that unfortunately only lasted one season called dietland. It hits pretty close. I wish the network continued it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:42 AM
16

Women have thousands of guys (Derrick Jackson, Tony gaskins etc) on YouTube, hundreds of magazines and books telling us how to get a decent relationship with one man. Men have a handful of other men that teach them how to be pickup artists, sleep with and abuse as many women as possible. The truth is LVM don’t respect us enough to listen to us. They would much rather think we’re crazy and continue to manipulate women. Things would be so much simpler if they actually listen to advice straight fro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:38 AM
10

That’s your preference. I want someone who is ok with my loving myself. In the same way that there is a way to say thank you without acting coy, there is a way to say I know, or I’ve worked hard, without being condescending. But you do you, and I will continue to do me.👍🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 02:21 AM
98

When a man tells me I’m beautiful, I respond with “I know!” If he gets upset, tells me I’m full of myself, or says I should say “thank you”, I know he’s a manipulator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 08:52 PM
16

Yeah most of the ones that I’ve seen that were successful were women with kids, who dated men, but were never getting married or moving in with a man again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 06:28 AM
48

I’ve been seeing more and more women friends buy houses together and I’m loving it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 06:15 AM
14

“We’ve been there” I’m sure y’all have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:24 AM
5

The fact that she goes to a therapist and still has to turn around and ask this question on relationship advice is very troubling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:29 AM
26

Absolutely. I was watching murder at middle beach on hbo. I couldn’t help but see the ego of the investigators who refused to share info with the private eyes. I just know a woman would have accepted the help and that poor son would have had an answer by now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 05:25 AM
12

🙂 I’ve got your (clown) nose!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 08:46 PM
14

I bet he’s also called girls used up sluts because they were too trusting. We are damned if we trust, damned if we don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:02 PM
14

This has happened to me too. Why do we tolerate this rapacious coercive behavior?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:33 AM
2

Isn’t this the age old dilemma?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 05:38 PM
1

Your right. You put up no statistics only conjecture. You still suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 06:27 AM
2

Yeah but the statistics you base your argument on are false. Plus you are not denying the fact that men do commit more violent crimes by throwing black people under the bus. You are hate filled and ignorant to boot. Your username is a farce.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 06:24 AM
2

This is like the fifth time your brought up black people as some shitty shield against men’s behavior. God just grab your white hood and be done with it already.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 05:42 AM
10

Looking at the article I meant to say number 5. But it’s the first on the list. Men feel they are owed a beautiful woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 02:45 AM
8

Read number 1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 02:10 AM
77

Definitely seconding the emotional incest and emotional incest. Victims of emotional incest tend to be players, they will never commit to a woman because they are already in a committed relationship with their mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 01:23 AM
5

Do you ever eat the variety box with the Raffelo and dark chocolate Ferrero Rocher? 😋 why would anyone want a man?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 04:51 PM
2

I want in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 11:15 AM
21

Exactly. So many red flags here and these ladies were justified for in their cut and run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:07 AM
29

I saw a tik tok repost on Instagram where the woman posted pics of her under the caption: Me Vs the girl he left me for. This followed by pictures of her daughter. All of the women in the comments were commiserating the truth of that post. I think this is an aspect of mom’s emotional needs being denied. When you feel as though your needs aren’t being met, while simultaneously watching your daughter getting showered with love, value and affection; it can cause resentment. It is important that you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 03:46 AM
23

Yeah. He will always have Darcy swagger. But I’m mid thirties. He’s still a touch too old for me personally, but I enjoyed him in movies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 03:15 AM
7

Why does his face look like he’s worked in a coal mine for 30 years?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 03:06 AM
1

Dating advice for men #98. If your boxers, shirts and socks have holes in them, buy new ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 06:18 PM
1

Oh I’ve dated that guy before. He had a perfectly staged home 100% of the time. No pictures of friends or family anywhere. Grade A controlling narcissist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 06:16 PM
7

Exactly what the guy I dated was about. Talked a good game but only wanted Rihanna black skin. And when he dated interracial, he still had to put on like he wasn’t one of those traitors every time he was around black women, like he was still down for them, then he would diss me publicly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 09:12 PM
1

I hear you. I do tend to say some words even I might not realize are insensitive. I have no problem with BIPOC calling out hypocrisy and wrongdoings of white American culture. In fact, with said guy and every black man I ever dated, I know they needed to call out these issues. I really am bothered that hatefulness has hijacked seemingly positive words like heritage, audacity, etc. I would hope you know that I personally don’t subscribe to racism and bigotry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 09:02 PM
92

Wow! The scrotes must have been active on this post. 6 comments but only 2 show in the comments . I agree 100% with this message. Porn is terrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 07:27 PM
19

Interracial woman here too. Those same men will then try to make you apologize for your non black side once they start to date you. They will trash that part of your ethnicity because it keeps you having to “prove yourself” to their dusty asses. But also they feel guilty for spouting the black struggle line of “needing to stick together” but will only date light skinned black women. I literally had one LVM tell me I couldn’t have white in me because he didn’t like white people. I understood him …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 07:09 PM
4

My ex would tell me he knew how to treat women because he had a mother and an older sister. He was by far, the most narcissistic man I ever dated. So I decided after that, having a present father that demonstrated HVM behavior toward his wife should be one of my standards for men. Is there truly no way to tell?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 02:30 PM
13

Exactly. Nothing has ever been good enough. No matter the sexual act, no matter what I cooked, no matter how peaceful I was. It never kept them around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 02:14 PM
-3

I don’t want equality though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:19 PM
3

Classic Movie!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 01:13 AM
8

‘For a generation of older men, traditional, live-in relationships remain important because female partners meet so many of their social, emotional, health and domestic needs, said Sharon Hyman, a Montreal filmmaker who’s interviewed hundreds of couples for her upcoming documentary called Apartners: Living Happily Ever Apart. “Women have wider circles of friends. Men don’t so they are relying on women for more,” Hyman said. “For men, often we hear it’s not as easy for them to be on their own."’ …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 01:30 AM
1

Like I said. It doesn’t mean we shouldn’t try, it doesn’t mean we should give up, but let’s acknowledge it’s a possibility. This is what I’m saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 05:25 AM
1

Ok but you stated “this is just a threat NVM use to keep women available” when two women stated they think men might retaliate. Maybe you didn’t intend to deny it but it sure looks like you dismissed the possibility that men could do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:15 AM
3

I’m referring to the fact that you stated those are “Just threats” that men make. It’s quite a bit more than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 03:50 AM
4

This was a post on ask feminists that got me to thinking. I’m not saying that we still shouldn’t try. But to think it won’t be a problem is putting your head in the sand. From one of the articles: “Yes, the fact that women have better options to leave an abusive relationship might be one of the most serious contributors to the rise of women killed by their intimate partners. It’s well known that women are at greater danger and risk when they leave an abusive relationship—leaving is the biggest t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 03:48 AM
4

Oh God! I lived for that scene when they are in yellow and houndstooth print, and twirl out of their jackets.😍😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 03:45 AM
15

The issue is the hunter/ gatherer era had significantly less people in the world, with more dangerous animals. And, we have to acknowledge men have been indoctrinated to the entitlement of women for thousands of years. Even though monogamy is an invention of modern civilization, ‘modern’ is still well over a millennia in this case. We cannot deny the rise in sexual and domestic violence that has happened on the tails of feminist movements. Statistically, when is a man most likely to be violent? …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 03:37 AM
16

I think what is important about men loving cats is that they are not controlling. Cats do what they want to do. People enjoy dogs because they are blindly loyal and are easier to “train”. Dogs will accept low effort from their owners. Cats will let you know their displeasure. Men who dislike cats, outside allergy reasons, are suspect to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 03:26 AM
9

Yeah but he’s still lying. He’s still telling her that it was his friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:20 AM
8

This book is recommended so much. I want to read it but am afraid it might be triggering for me. Did it get to be a lot to process or did you devour it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:45 AM
8

It’s so funny because Tracy Ellis Ross is so HV in real life. I’m surprised she wasn’t cringing at the script.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 04:37 AM
106

Honey we got ladies on here defending him. By trying to give the ‘bigger picture’ of ‘They were both abusive’. Yes we know. But one was 28 and one was 51. One was asking the other to quit drinking and doing drugs. The other was talking about fucking her charred dead corpse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 06:31 AM
55

I’ll live in an actual trash can before living with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 05:52 AM
11

Yeah please add trigger warning to the title. I need to watch a Disney movie now. thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 03:01 PM
72

They identified the man. Get the word out ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 04:15 AM
314

Just in case the male lurkers don’t want to read the article, I’ll highlight a sentence for you. “It amazes me that men who hate FDS don’t see the opportunity here. FDS has created the perfect self-improvement template for men (aka, what they are seeking in a man). Are these men not seeing how making these changes would benefit them, too?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 11:46 PM
17

I love it. My BFF was raised that way. And her dad would say “If they can’t treat you better than I can, they aren’t worth your time.” Naturally she takes no shit from men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:53 AM
15

Can you leave the title in next time? I like to see what people are saying but I can’t search for it without the title.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 07:44 PM
34

So even guys that are above average are afraid of being upstaged by a bigger penis.🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 09:34 PM
182

I find that all men who are worried about loose vaginas have Vienna sausages in their pants. 💁🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:47 PM
38

It’s Virtue signaling that has been brought on by the cool girl trope misogyny pushes. Hope sis gets picked. I really wish we could figure out away to help men realize they are truly gay and they just want a guy that happens to have a nice set of tits and ass. Do you want someone that’s going to fuck all the time, drink beer, and eat like shit, but still look amazing? Cool! Date another guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:36 AM
48

I’m really sick of LVMs using the MeToo movement as an excuse not to approach women. The problem is Society has this narrative that, if you really want some thing in life, you can have it as long as you work hard for it. But how do you apply that to your pursuit of a woman? It does not matter how hard you try, or how bad you want her. If she does not want to date you, respect her wishes and move on. But unfortunately, most men hear “No” and think they just have to be persistent. And that’s when …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:31 AM
53

I’ve seen other groups state that the mods refused trans women in here. But I think men just want to claim trans so they can have the ability to comment in here. Which might have lead to a zero tolerance policy on anyone who may have any “male genitalia”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:00 AM
14

Unfortunately there are no clear laws in the us to protect us from this outside the crime of being given an std such as HIV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 03:55 AM
54

Spit lube is disgusting, it has the opposite effect of what you intended, and it’s a mood killer. Stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:36 AM
25

He’s destroying meals on purpose. If you can read you can cook a meal. Tasty even has videos you can watch. He would rather eat hot dogs and potato salad for a week then let her think she can count on him for these tasks. Like “uggh! Now I have to cook a couple nights out of the week!” It amazes me how far LVM go in their manipulation tactics. I was cooking scrambled eggs at 4.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:33 AM
50

What cities will you be visiting in Spain? I love it there! Congrats sis on a much needed break.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 04:50 AM
37

I wish we could make posters to put up in high school hallways and dorms. We really do not educate young people enough on what is healthy in a relationship. Society just assumes all parents are capable of teaching this stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 10:03 PM
10

I was going to ask the same thing! I would love to see her art!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 05:05 PM
107

It reminds me of when Gwyneth Paltrow was telling women. “No matter how angry you are at your husband, just give him a blowjob” You see how well that worked out for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 01:33 AM
31

Honey........ I’ve done that already. It. Don’t. Work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:58 AM
27

I think this should be pinned. Great read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 01:33 PM
28

My LVM ex had two guy friends that he’s known since he was 13. When we first dated, before I met his friends, he made sure to tell me that they don’t know how to treat women like he does. I thought it was strange to put down your friends in that way; but I brushed it off because I thought it meant he really wanted me. When I did meet his friends one of them told me that I was way out of lvm ex’s league. The second one told me I was too good for him too. I thought they might actually be looking o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 12:07 AM
9

The problem was she got on TickTock and had to virtual virtue signal while she put down other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 03:05 PM
41

Ladies we have our next Ted Bundy here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 02:55 PM
0

Thank you!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 09:19 PM
2

Sweetheart no one needs you to point that out. We ALL KNEW. But the media chose to take his side and paint her out to be the only toxic person in the relationship. Now, Johnny Depp is finally taking a hit too. And of course, on FDS no less, there are still women who want to defend him. Yeesh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 03:33 PM
12

here’s the article ‘During the hearings, Mr. Depp’s team claimed that Ms. Heard was actually the abuser, provoking arguments and, in one case in an argument in Australia, throwing a vodka bottle at him, severing his fingertip. Ms. Heard testified that Mr. Depp had severed his own fingertip in the argument while smashing a phone next to her head. In his ruling, the judge devoted 17 pages to that fight. He noted that Mr. Depp had admitted that after sustaining the injury, he painted graffiti with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 02:47 PM
10

Oh we know what rumors were out there. And what you stated was the only side we ever heard for years. It wasn’t until he decided not to leave well enough alone, and go after the tabloids for saying there was substantial evidence against him, that all of his misdeeds got aired. He did it to himself. Now everyone knows she was speaking the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 02:39 PM
16

Johnny deep couldn’t quit while he was ahead. He decided to sue some British tabloids for saying there was overwhelming evidence he was abusive towards Amber Heard. The courts did not agree with him and agreed that there was substantial evidence that he was abusive. So Warner bros has forced him to resign from fantastical beasts franchise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 02:08 PM
17

Absolutely. It’s about time he took an L.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:27 AM
19

Now I wish would’ve said JoDe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:32 AM
30

That might be my 2000s pop culture speaking. We had to shorten everyone’s name back then. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:10 AM
32

The three most likely people to cheat are preachers, politicians, and public speakers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 02:58 PM
10

I know this is going to sound weird but I want you to think about horror movies. When do they end? It’s always when the main character gets tired of running, and decides to turn around and face the monster. They know they could very likely die but even that option is better than constantly running for the rest of your life. My point is the monster is not your ex, though he is surely an abuser and LVM. The monster is what he’s placed in your head. The part of your mind actually agrees with him su…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:52 AM
26

Yes it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 09:19 AM
18

He didn’t wander around that store. I bet he wrapped the bottle he got from work, in the only bag he had available in his car, on the way home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:28 AM
24

C’mon. At best he has those kids every weekend. But, given his handle is dipshyt, it’s probably every other weekend. And I’m sure his mom takes them one of those days. So he’s cooked them hard boiled eggs in the morning and McDonalds at night. Two meals a day is enough for kids right. s/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:24 AM
78

My LVM ex did the switcheroo during sex as well. This is the other calculating thing they do. They pull the condom off and then tell you “Well you look like you don’t sleep around.” 😒🙄 ok but they do. And then they say “Well if one of us has an std, the damage is already done now” trying to continue having unprotected sex. That’s what ultimately caused me to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:13 AM
53

And I think that is what’s even more telling. Clearly the girl hasn’t heard of reproductive coercion before either. Not to say she is ignorant, but that society has pushed the narrative that women are the only ones that want to get married and have children. That women are sneaky, calculating, and are gifted a Turkey baster on their 16th birthday to steal men’s stinky acid sperm. But men, they’d never trap a woman into marriage. They’d never propose in front of a large audience to insure you’d s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:10 AM
22

Quality over quantity is the saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:52 AM
43

Nope I looked again. He ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:45 AM
51

I’m really hoping the guy in the center just got photo snapped in the middle of a sneeze.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:44 AM
2

I’m 37 and wore a costume of Oblina from AHHH real monsters Saturday. Nothing sexy about it. Only the cool kids knew what I was. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 06:49 AM
17

She told ME she thought I was trying to steal her man. She told everyone else I was a Lesbian. But I think people got the point because she was bad mouthing me and I kept it classy and never mentioned her again. She reached out some months later apologizing. I asked if she was still with him, and she said yes. I cut off contact again. It will always be the same response, unless she has left him. I can’t put myself in danger again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 07:04 PM
26

Man it hurts to read these things. I’ve had these issues with friends as well. And part of you feels like if you stop being friends with her, he wins. He’s isolated her and you know it gets dangerous for her when that happens. I know this is hard. I lost a friendship to this though the friend reached out to me multiple times after. I had taken her in after her boyfriend started abusing her in front of the kids. The 2YO tried to step in as mom was getting pistol whipped and he got slapped too. Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:38 PM
50

Cooking together HA!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 05:46 PM
9

Madonna and the Whore anyone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:18 PM
11

LOL. I think you are on to something here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 04:34 PM
57

I know I’ll catch shit for this opinion but I hate that we had to resort to classifying women who want a strong connection before having intercourse as Demi-sexual. We had to create a name for our want of connection to be taken seriously in hookup culture. It boggles my mind that we get less respect than those who like play acting rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 04:59 AM
21

Women are also given the burden of picking the “right guy”, not what they desire. Oh and they don’t get to decide if the guy is “right”, that is the man’s job. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 04:42 AM
5

And 1200 ignorant fools co-signed this BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 08:22 PM
19

IF?!?!?!?! Sir you’ve never had to run up to a random group of people, and beg them to stand with you because of a creepy woman following you! Tell me how hard it is my sweet summer child! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 06:16 PM
53

I can’t say this has been the case for me at 6’ even, but I’m willing to bet it does get harder when I woman gets to 6’3 and up. Mostly I would get men both short and tall salivating over the idea of having their own basketball team. The old ‘she’ll produce strong and tall sons’ trope. It’s so weird to have grown men asking a little too many questions about your cycle, or if you’ve had any miscarriages or abortions. The audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 05:31 AM
14

You’re never going to forgive me or give me another opportunity * to screw your over and drain your caring energy? FTFH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 04:46 AM
92

So wait! They never have sex there at the house but make an exception because no one is home. So the 16YO would have to have been waiting in there for something that not than likely wouldn’t have happened?!?!?! Then the brother is not angry at the YB, only that the mood was ruined? Boys will be boys? Oh honey! You’re dating a pervert who planned this with his brother. RUN! But tell mom about their behavior first!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 12:03 AM
13

My friend’s ex husband yelled at me for taking his wife to a bar to play pool (our favorite thing before she got married and had kids) “because that is where married men go to get their dick’s sucked!” 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 really guy? Way to tell on yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 11:28 PM
3

The number of women I’ve seen put a man through university, only for him to cheat on her/leave her is staggering. Please tread carefully here. They don’t like to have reminders of when they were poor.
/r/askFDS28/10/20 07:03 PM
15

Ok so quick math. You are 25 now and have been with your boyfriend for a year. -1=24. Before, you were engaged to a guy for 2 years, dating for 5 years before that. This made you at best 17 when you started to date the abuser. How old was he? How much time did you have before you started dating the new guy? None of these are good signs. I think you are so worried about reaching your projected timelines, that you may not have gotten to truly figure out who you are as a woman outside of a relation…
/r/askFDS28/10/20 06:00 PM
46

Ever wonder why, looking at majority of species, the females tend to live on their own? All the males do is show up, compete for sex then leave. I know there are exceptions like penguins and seahorses, but in the vast majority of species men are essential for breeding and little else. Maybe we had it wrong all along?
/r/askFDS27/10/20 06:23 PM
16

Uuggghhh! The amount I’ve times I’ve gone out looking sophisticated chic, only to meet up with a guy in sneakers. I really do try to tell every man I know that nice clothes, hygiene and good cologne will take you far, but I rarely see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 02:05 AM
32

Just tattoo a Disney symbol on your body. Let their lawyers do the work of making sure you and they don’t end up on pornhub. 🤔 I know I’m both reaching and desperate.😩😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 05:19 PM
29

I’m curious. Tell me more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 03:51 PM
9

Oh man I wonder if I can still help in Georgia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 02:13 AM
88

Invite her on over to FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 02:12 AM
16

I understand financially you are better off splitting finances in London. I’m genuinely curious as to why it has to be your SO? You can split rent with a roommate just the same. What is the incentive to do that with a man?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:48 PM
2

I hear a lot of people on here say only young innocent girls will fall for this. So I’m going to take one for the team and out myself as a woman in her thirties. I have fallen for this. I have fallen for this tactic this year. I do have a history of abuse and CPTSD. It didn’t last that long(One month maybe). I’m still recovering from codependent behavior. I just want to say this for anyone else reading this, and feeling like a dumbass in falling for LVM tricks, well beyond the age of naïveté. It…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 08:10 PM
30

This mad me so mad!!! Police made these women walk home after they called fearing for their lives?!?!?!? I want to start a security company for women. Black LVM are so quick to quote Malcolm and say how disrespected the black woman is. Unfortunately there is no introspection and accountability to go along with that quote. They will continue to listen to music that degrades women. They will continue watching porn and refuse to believe that effects how they treat women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 01:55 PM
22

He said go get tested bitch. 😔 He’s probably given her a STD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 11:07 PM
3

Came here to say this. It is indeed a thrift store. You have a stingy one here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 09:36 PM
32

So I had this big dude try to come on to me. I kept trying to be nice and say “no thank you” and “I’m not interested”. Twenty minutes this went on. He kept responding “C’mon! I’m being nice!!!”. To which I replied imagine if a really big gay man stood in your personal space and said “c’mon! I’m being nice to you!!!” I said “It wouldn’t change the fact that you are not interested in him would it?” Him: 🤔 “Damn you really fucked me up with that gay shit shawty. But let me get that number tho!” I s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 09:32 PM
2

But you knew that was going to be the case before you even looked. 🤣 Why are scrotes so predictable?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:58 PM
1

I will fix now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:20 PM
5

Btw I’m not sure it wasn’t her guy friend. She says she kinda stopped talking to him afterward. But the others were trying to find any other way she could have misjudged. Maybe you didn’t eat. Maybe you were dehydrated. Maybe it was the bartender. Maybe the glass wasn’t washed. None of these things told her she did the right thing in honoring her intuition and not hanging out with the friend again. This on a sub thread about listening to intuition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:15 PM
1

link
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:10 PM
13

The nerve that someone was like “MaYBe tHe GlaSS wAsN’t WAsHed.” ???? !!!! That’s what you came up with sir? Sigh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:01 PM
21

95% of the stories were of women, and men when they were children, narrowly avoiding kidnap, rape, and/or murder. 99% of the stories involved creepy men. But #NotAllMen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 03:50 PM
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You know how they say knowing is half the battle? It’s not always the case. The fact that you referenced your ego tells me you done the necessary “knowing” and processing, but the healing/recovery isn’t happening along with the knowing. It’s terrible because you feel out of control and vulnerable when you can’t stop being bothered by someone’s actions. I say this as a person who spent more time arguing with my LVM ex in my head than we actually spent together. I had a few good months of bliss af…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:09 AM
22

I am shook!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 09:15 PM
11

Neo wrote that song though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 02:21 AM
22

The mods copied the post below in the comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 05:41 PM
43

Ladies. It is always ok to change your mind. Don’t let any scrote tell you different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:49 AM
1

And probably post a video to YouTube just like the jihadists they want to protect the country from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 01:35 AM
2

LVMOC
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 01:22 AM
5

I enjoyed this immensely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:28 PM
1

This is the recipe I am a lemon glutton however and I mix some lemon juice, lemon zest, a bit of buttermilk, and powdered sugar to make a light icing drizzle over the top. 😋🤤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:47 PM
3

I made a lemon rosemary coffee cake to try and switch it up. The lemon icing was so good and the cake so moist I had to give the other half to a neighbor before I went too far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:27 PM
7

When I lived in Dubai it was common knowledge that the sheiks turned a blind eye to prostitution because they were afraid men would revolt. The ratio of men to women is 4:1. This is also the thought behind Jordan Peterson’s theory of enforced monogamy. If men don’t get laid, they go to war. So we need to make sure men have wives so they don’t go mental from dry dick. Think Boko Haram.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:56 PM
8

I hate this. And truthfully, I see a lot of men and women do this in the south because dishes are the devil apparently 🙄. But these same people always run out of solo cups or plates at some point and have nothing to eat on. Like, why wouldn’t you just go to a thrift store and buy a few for 30 cents or Walmart for $1?!?! Outside of being crap for the environment, you look so lazy. Especially in the age of dishwashers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:03 PM
2

I have a lemon bars addiction as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 08:54 PM
5

I won’t give you my three, rather, go and check out a podcast called breaking the dating code by loari Edison. She has 3 episodes dedicated to curating your list. The podcast was super helpful. Don’t feel under pressure to have it all down right away. Also, When you see HVM exhibiting characteristics that you like, add to the list. How he treats his wife and kids. Physical traits you like, aspects of his character, etc. EDIT: Breaking the dating CODE by Loari Edison
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 08:45 PM
12

Welcome gifted sister! I’m so happy you are here! I’m a daddy’s girl myself and this made me so happy to see. It’s like right when you needed it, there was a HVM showing that shit show how it’s done. I wish you many happy days of rest, peace, and self love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 08:31 PM
28

He’s a basketball player. If you’ve heard about road life for players; you’d pretty much assume he had a lot of groupies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:47 PM
23

I hate it so much, but it’s programming. It’s like everywhere we turn there is some article, movie, preacher, LVM (I could go on and on) that tells me I’m in the least desired, most disrespected, ugliest demographic on the planet. Of course the incels would get excited at the possibility of a race of women who they’ve been told are desperate. I’m so tired of hearing this. My options have been plentiful. Even in fuckboi towns like Atlanta.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 03:05 PM
25

The incel believes black women have so few choices (mate partners) that they would happily be slaves to ugly or plain looking white guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:55 PM
1

Absolutely. My LVM ex flat out said (unprovoked mind you) that his friends “don’t know how to treat women, but he did because he grew up with a mother and sister.” 🤔 Ok but only 1 in 3 boys grows up in a two parent household where I live. Only 1 in 5 has both biological parents in the house. So you think you are special because you had a single mom and sister? Also,you are willing to trash your friends just to make sure I don’t sleep with them? Naturally he was trash like the rest of his friends…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 12:47 AM
3

I’m kinda hating the prince right now though. lol. Thank God for DaVinci then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 10:41 PM
28

The Hawt man she ended up with afterward 😍. The mom who had to teach her daughter how to ask for what she’s worth. I recommended that movie here 8 months ago. Very FDS centric.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:49 PM
15

My favorite movie of all time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:40 PM
13

I agree, Cinderella wasn’t going to meet a guy. She just wanted to have a night on the town and forget about being a servant for once. She just happened upon a prince. Same with Aurora. These movies weren’t all bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 06:36 PM
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Honey if men were as simple as they insinuate then we’d all be happily married by now. I’m an attractive woman who spent her pickme years learning to cook, sex tips from Cosmo, sports, and how to communicate. None of that got me a man. I’m so tired of solely carrying the responsibility of the success of a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 12:22 AM
2

This was perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 12:04 AM
10

Ah the women’s only section on the train. Chef’s kiss Also the women only nail salons with women employees. The women’s only lunches where all the ladies could dress lavishly without being leered at. Man I miss that place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:00 PM
16

I’ve been in Dubai with the abaya/hijab on and men still harassed me. All they could see were face, hands, and heels. I learned then that scrotes will scrote no matter what you wear. That shit logic, once again, places the responsibility of keeping men well behaved on women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:55 PM
59

Trash by desperate pickmeishas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:31 PM
130

“Jolene jolene jolene jo-leeeeene! Please just take him even though he’s trash.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:30 PM
116

Here’s for the moderators! 💐 💐 You are the real MVP’s of Reddit🎊🍾🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:59 PM
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💯 🌹 🌹 💯 🌹 🌹 💯 100,000 Queens! Next year 500,000!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:57 PM
6

Don’t link anything sis. Let him destroy his peepee and his brain. He’ll be in noFap in a few years after he’s realized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:08 PM
2

Someone will REVERT at their earliest convenience. Yes I will revert at my earliest convenience after reading this and return to my previous state of ignoring you. Why do they need to condescend so bad they use words knowing good and well they don’t know what they mean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:46 PM
31

As a person living in south I concur.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:29 PM
101

We have. It’s FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:09 PM
12

I came here to say this. There have been reports of grooming young men on these sites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 04:25 PM
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Because we don’t know if they are one of the violent ones. I was just thinking of this music video where the girl got doused in beer by men because she looked condescending. I saw this at 10 and realized you get punished for being the stuck up girl. 25 years later I’m just now questioning the ways that kept me scared and imprisoned to my own detriment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:09 PM
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This same POS is yelling the “NoT ALL mEn!” battlecry to any woman that will listen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:00 PM
4

I’ve been needing to create a throwRa account. This should be fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:36 PM
8

I am a very expressive happy person with a wide Julia Roberts sort of smile. I’ve also been sexually harassed at every job I’ve ever worked. I wish I could have that icy looking dilemma. I’ve had to really practice the fuck off stare. I’ve had to tell so many men “I’m not nice.” when they ask why I look so mean now. It’s just so much work. Also, side note, I saw a ‘GiVe GuYs MoRe HuGs!’ post on Reddit recently. I would love do be able to give hugs the way I do my girlfriends. Sadly, I give you a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:32 PM
10

Not sitting right with your soul was the only excuse you ever needed sis. I’m proud of you for honoring that.
/r/askFDS17/09/20 04:00 PM
1

Can may I please be approved?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:40 AM
0

I don’t need to be policed here. I know these things happen. In no way am I victim blaming. I PERSONALLY got out of that scene that I have the freedom to be not nice. I keep saying this is MY interpretation of this. Please stop taking this personal ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:43 AM
2

I understood it to be a continuation of the rest of the conversation. You don’t have to be nice and “take it”. Be a bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 11:09 PM
22

But seriously, we could be putting together our own non profits to help more women have access to this content. We could have more resources to help women out of abusing relationships. Mentorships, networking, on down to political candidates. There are many opportunities here. We really have something special. Even If nothing else comes of this subreddit, I’ve already benefited so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 10:03 PM
6

For me it was the “ The next time a man shoves their dick in your mouth BITE IT OFF!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:48 PM
12

Yes I have tests. None of those are it. I have tests because I have to weed out the staggering amount of trashy, manipulative, abusive men that want me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:30 PM
11

He is referring to Jordan Peterson’s theory in why we should enforce monogamy among women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:20 PM
5

True. They could have lessened the limit. And it may allow more men to get out of having to account for their actions. Ahhhh America 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:03 PM
8

I hate this song but love post modern jukebox content as a whole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:34 PM
5

Those are all horrible numbers agreed. And hopefully the judge can see that this is wrong. It says it’s in the judges discretion (no more than 10 years) not that 10 year gaps are approved outright. I am not in defense. The article says it addresses the cases where an 18YO is dating an 16YO and the like. I’m trying to be optimistic and realistic. Edit: Also they can still be charged but the question is whether they can be labeled sex offender. I’ve seen a case here in the south of a 19YO gay man …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:23 PM
8

More from an article: ‘The bill addresses cases like when an 18-year-old is dating a younger high schooler. The person can still be convicted of a sex offense but they should not automatically be registered as a sex offender, Wiener said. “This bill would exempt from mandatory registration under the act a person convicted of certain offenses involving minors if the person is not more than 10 years older than the minor and if that offense is the only one requiring the person to register,” the leg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:59 PM
10

Sounds like Atlanta
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:27 PM
11

If you haven’t already, I’d recommend listening to a podcast called Breaking the Dating Code by loari Edison. She has three episodes dedicated to curating your standards. One of my favorite things that I have done is people watch. Often times I’ll see a HVM do something for his wife/girlfriend and I’ll write that down on my list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:42 PM
8

I think the being “equals” thing in relationships is equivalent to the “I don’t see color” trope. I want my differences to be seen and celebrated, not overlooked out of fear of preferential treatment. I’m not a man’s equal, I’m on a whole different playing field.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:45 AM
17

I lived in Dubai for a few years. I was told about their reasoning for turning a blind eye towards prostitution. The ratio of men to women is 4:1. The sheiks brought in so many workers to build their city. They felt if they didn’t provide a “release” for their workers, an uprising would happen. I think about this sometimes. Why is male sanity so closely tied to sex? Why do they want to hurt people if they are rejected? Why doesn’t this make men more introspective instead of projecting their prob…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:25 PM
117

Men work so hard at their manipulation tactics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:42 PM
11

I get warm fuzzies thinking of the rude awakening men get when they date according to stereotypes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 06:42 PM
69

Why haven’t they gone their own way yet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 04:26 PM
12

Lebron James was 35 when he went to the lakers sooooooo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 12:43 PM
5

I agree. I understand the line between carrying responsibility for changing men’s behaviors, and calling them on their shit. This woman is has excellent fencing skills. Her ‘points’ are meant to elicit a “touché” from LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:08 PM
9

I’ve always hated this song. It’s right up there with Jagged Edges’ Let’s get married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 03:28 AM
2

I hear that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 12:17 AM
27

You should’ve let him keep the toothbrush. Who cares if his teeth fall out. Also. I’ve taken a toothbrush or two and scrubbed the toilet bowl with it on the way out of a relationship. I’ve got no more fuck bucks in my first national bank of fucks account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 11:13 PM
3

These men are acting the same way as men who are are physically abusive. In that they are not crazy. These men are not going to confront another man. It’s just easier to say the woman is wrong and “Not all men” versus check their friends, brothers, big guys, co-workers etc. They can’t jeopardize their social standing. Their male ego can’t stand being called a simp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 04:36 PM
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I see a lot of black LVM doing this move lately. Sleeping with a woman from another race while telling her she’ll never be good enough to be his girlfriend/ wife because he needs someone who understands his struggle. Oh, but he will string her along and get his 40 acres and a mule out of her with no shame. Constantly degrading her and making her feel worthless for being different than him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 03:35 AM
23

These same men say this until they are dating you. Then it’s like “Don’t stop anywhere late at night.” and “Where are you going looking like that? You know how men are!” Oh and “You’re going there by yourself?” Then and only then are they fully aware of what men can do to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 08:02 PM
3

Yeah. I also thought it was funny that this was posted to Facebook instead of OLD sites; where he would surely receive no matches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 06:37 PM
23

Diana Kirschner seems like a pickmeisha. Look at how she down plays the mens’ actions in the article: ‘Emmett, one of my therapy clients, was a computer security expert who had a history of falling for gorgeous Asian women whom he believed were “out of his league.”’ FTFY: Fetishized Asian women and their “delicate beauty” . He thinks that Asian women are always supposed to be demure, but tigers in the bed apparently. ‘Jon, a 40-year old businessman had a series of relationships each lasting arou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 02:37 AM
56

Yep. I was an FA and the number I’ve times I was asked about mile high clubs and buddy passes was ridiculous. Also they feel they will have better opportunity to cheat on you with your being gone for stretches. Don’t tell dates what you do right off the bat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:44 PM
18

*Men think we owe them sexual favor. Most don’t want a relationship. They would have to invest time and energy. They want access.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 03:04 PM
10

I loved how my ex LVM, who used to argue not all men, would tell the women he ‘cared’ about to be “safe” when going home. “Don’t stop anywhere at night, in this neighborhood, by yourself. It’s very dangerous!” It’s not because he thought a band of wild women were going to rob, rape, and kill me. He was concerned about other men doing this. When they want to date and control you; all of a sudden, they are aware of the amount of creepy men out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 01:07 AM
34

This is absolutely a thing. Guy I dated had a Tiffany collar for his dog. She would jump on me and get in my face. When I asked if he could put her up he let me know that it was her house as well. I blocked and deleted right away. He let me know where I fall in the equation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 02:18 AM
13

Former flight attendant here. Guess what gender loved to ask if I’m part of the mile high club? Men every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:51 PM
3

Y’all I’m terrible. I give that book to every new mom I knew at her baby shower. I am CF and liked the book as a kid along with where the sidewalk ends. Now I realize I am continuing cultural misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:36 PM
15

They caught us out here exposed, butt naked, with cold wind and bright lights. It hurts.😩🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:43 AM
1

I am assuming from your name you are into crypto currency? Pretty cool. I’ve been investing recently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:39 PM
2

Ok so I have so many questions. Are face readers really a thing? Why didn’t the matchmaker bet vinyan more to see if he was ready for marriage. This is supposed to be a reputable service right?!?! Do you consider match makers to be a scam if you’ve grown up in that society? I’m so fascinated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 05:40 AM
1

I haven’t gotten my code yet so there that. But I do appreciate FDS on my Instafeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 02:19 AM
31

There is no great thought behind “daddy issues” shaming. It’s their way of saying “Not my fault” “I’m not the one that hurt you.” when we are clearly communicating to them that a certain action they are doing is hurtful to us. It’s dismissive, lazy, and dumb with no forethought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 02:01 AM
20

I’ve been considered very attractive my whole life. Most of the time I choose to stay single because I couldn’t trust men. Sometimes I slipped up and was quickly reminded why I don’t date. The disingenuous part really hit home. Everyone is so nice in the hope I will grant them sexual favor, then they turn shockingly violent when I refuse. It’s scary, I don’t like all the attention, and I preferred to be alone. FDS essentially gave me the vagina (because balls are weak) to demand what I want from…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:52 AM
1

So the real issue is why haven’t the majority of us left reddit entirely and have gone to the FDS website? This is as much a question for myself as you guys, but why do we give Reddit our energy?!? Reddit is the ultimate LVM and we keep hanging around, acting shocked and upset when it gets worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:18 AM
5

So I dated this LVM and was friends with a pickmeisha who introduced us. The LVM has other LVM friends because birds of a feather ya know. Well the LVM knows I am hot, so he proceeds to trash his male friends in a male guarding tactic: “They don’t know how to treat women like me. “ “I grew up with my mother and sister so I know.” Only 1 in 3 males lives in a two parent household where I live (only 1 in 5 lives with both biological parents) but whatever, sure you’re special. I was unfortunately t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:26 PM
6

I just cut out a pickmeisha friend this past month. I had conversations with her about things she did that hurt me. She supposedly understood, but would continue to do those things later. The friendship was relatively new; so I left her the same way I would a LVM and just stopped responding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:01 PM
14

That is something I appreciated about various places in the Middle East. Being in Dubai and having women and children only safe spaces like rail carts and meetup spaces. It made a huge difference to not being leered at or groped. I wish they’d bring this to the states.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 05:45 AM
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I went to Kuwait, during Ramadan, and got hit on by a guy while wearing my abaya. He followed me until I got into a cab. I gave up thinking modesty keeps you safe after that fiasco.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 10:51 PM
2

But also, what are the positive attributes you want in a mate? Emotional intelligence. Well read on current events and arts. Dimples. Integrity. Follow through. Remembering something I said I liked. These are a few of mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:49 PM
1

Cuz, hoes, they sweat a brotha majorly and I don't know why, your girl keeps paging me She tell me that she needs me Cries when she leaves me And every time she sees me, she squeeze me Lady take it easy Hate to sound sleazy, but tease me I don't want it if it's that easy Oh, you heard that I was bangin" Your home girl you went to school with That's cool, but did she tell you about her sister And your cousin thought I wasn't See, weekends was made for michelob But it's a monday, my day So just le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 04:15 AM
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The thing is, I’m the attractive woman, and I still got left. They wanted more of a connection, needed to do more work on themselves and other “excuses”. My fault in this was my pickmeisha ways. They came off as desperate. Over all I think men don’t really know what attracts them to a woman. But, having to chase and work for you sure adds value in their eyes. If it’s convenient, they won’t invest long term.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 02:13 PM
14

I’m concerned he’d try to kill her over this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 05:37 PM
25

Absolutely. It’s been a great level up phase.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:31 AM
20

Sooooooooooo you want a “no-nuptial agreement” to keep the mother of your children get from getting child support enough that you are willing to pay many tens of thousands to hire a surrogate and pay for another woman’s eggs? God Damned idiotic hoteps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 01:34 AM
54

I just posted this to FDS as well. It certainly makes sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 10:20 PM
1

link
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 09:44 PM
2

Diary of a sex kitten is the one I read I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 09:08 PM
22

You should read her autobiography. It’s pretty amazing. She was a ‘man-eater’ in the best way possible. She definitely took no shit from men. Her mom was a pickmeisha who abandoned her for a man who would marry her, but not with that ‘yella’ daughter around. Mom was raped by a plantation owner’s son and interracial children were seen as bad luck. So mom dropped her with an abusive family to keep her man. Of course Eartha was fierce. She’s been a fighter since she was a baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:24 PM
11

T.I. and his daughter anyone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 01:35 PM
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I’m honestly not surprised reading this. Often when children see a mother getting beaten, or even murdered, they tend to have feelings of resentment toward her for being so weak as to allow this to happen. Mother’s are supposed to be strong and defend their children. The feelings may be subconscious, so they don’t always know they view mom in this light. It usually looks like overly identifying with the masculine aspect to avoid being weak like women( mom) who couldn’t protect them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 01:26 PM
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Nationalities or ethnicity? Are you living in another country from which you were born? I could understand being nervous if that’s the case. But perhaps we could still help you if so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 05:07 AM
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Truth hurts needs to be a user flair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 10:19 PM
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I needed this. I’ve always identified with her but hated the flak she got. But the symbolism is spot on though. She suffered childhood trauma and abandonment issues for sure. Her line of work was one of servitude( codependency/people pleasing) mainly to her stepmother (the voice in your head that beats you when you do something stupid). Her freedom came when she decided to do something for herself. By putting herself first she got more than she ever anticipated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:25 AM
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Done and Done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:04 AM
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Hopefully he gets to be someone’s bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:15 AM
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Oh man the symbolism is perfect. The ocean is a symbol of the heart and creatures who dwell within are symbols of emotions. The so called prince gaslights her to stop being “so emotional” and become more “grounded” like him. It’s painful because she isn’t herself. Then he leaves her for someone else who might be “more authentic”. Talk about a tale as old as time. 🧐😩😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:11 AM
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Here’s the thing I struggle with. As an FDSer, we are taught that if a guy doesn’t have a meaningful relationship or two under his belt it’s a red flag. I’m in my thirties. I’ve had one relationship that was meaningful and lasted over a year. My mom always told me “Shit or get off the pot.” She always believed you know quickly if you are going to marry this person or not(she dated my dad for a month before they were engaged, been together 40 years). So I always operated with this mindset and did…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:26 PM
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I’ve been thinking the same way, but I realized this concept is so foreign to me. I realized I’ve suffered from not having my mom around when I was a young child. I know I wouldn’t want that for my child, but I’m afraid because I know no other way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 02:45 PM
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That is terrible to hear. I feel for the daughter, but I’m glad she got amazing role models in her parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 02:37 PM
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I guess it’s me then. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 01:30 PM
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Do any of you know any black SAHMs? I’ve been thinking a lot about this recently because I don’t. It was unacceptable for the black women in my family to do this. Our motto as women was to always be the hardest worker we know. But to be vulnerable enough to allow a man to take care of you? Unheard of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:48 AM
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Tirade? You are projecting. I’m glad this is funny to you now. When you were using exclamation points and telling me I am insulting you; it looked to be an upsetting topic for you. Let go of the hate. That doesn’t mean play nice and forgive. Let. It. Go. And leave. Your very act of doing this can show a mother in law another option besides being a bitch. It’s just an unintended plus. Women are allowed to act however they wish but we can all acknowledge the reason we are in this sub. We are here …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 04:25 PM
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LOL. You’re right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 06:11 AM
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It looks like I may have I’ve triggered something here. Look sis, we are all trying to level up. The main thing is the woman leaves, LVMIL or no. It is not your responsibility to rehab MIL, but wishing they get a taste of their own medicine is giving them too much power and negative energy. I’m talking about you taking agency of your own life and not being Salt Lake City salty that MIL is a pickmeisha. Abused people abuse people. It’s simple, get yourself outta there. But learn to let go lest yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 06:10 AM
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I’m not implying their innocence, nor is this a plea to be understanding. More so what can happen to a pickmeisha who doesn’t get out of these relationships. This is the horrible byproduct of normalizing abuse. You accept it for others too. They are already in a shitty existence. Of course they want company. But more ‘medicine’ may not help. Showing a person that leaving is possible may be more beneficial to all involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 04:29 AM
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But..... didn’t they already get a taste of that medicine? The cycle of abuse is very real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:24 AM
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I know there are a lot of subs being banned rn ,but don’t you think FDS would have been the first to go? We are gaining Queens by the hundreds daily, none of these terrible hate subs can claim that. Reddit would have a vested interest in making sure we’re done for first if they really wanted to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:53 AM
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link
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 02:13 AM
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I guess you haven’t heard about the rise in sexual assaults on elderly women. Hell, necrophilia is a thing. There’s no escaping it love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 02:04 AM
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I think this might need to be more local otherwise it’s FDS. We can do those things here or in discord right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:26 PM
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The way I feel about it, if you don’t protect yourself you have abandoned yourself and that is a form of abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 10:40 PM
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I wish we could just cancel pornhub all together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 02:10 AM
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There’s a girl over there asking for ratings with severe body dysmorphia. It’s sad because those scrotes just encouraging her. That whole sub is heartbreaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 03:37 AM
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But society tells men that women are their “ball and chain”. This is subsequently why when you act like you don’t need them and they can leave; then all the sudden they treat you like your worth something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 06:04 PM
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6 footer here and I approve this message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 01:33 PM
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Welcome to FDS Queens!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:39 PM
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I’m still learning but here a few things: Mantras are real. In the area of codependency, record yourself saying a few uplifting mantras. I’ve even looped mantras onto instrumentals of my favorite chill songs and sleep to them. “I have inherent value.” “I am worth more than just what I can do for you” “Today, I will affirm that I am a gift to myself and the Universe. I will remember that nurturing self-care delivers that gift in its highest form.” From Melanie Beattie’s the language of letting Go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:50 PM
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Cuddles. Because honesty is too crass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 03:56 PM
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Sis this is LVM behavior. Save your coins for you love. If you live together, save your coins for the day you leave him. Then go for the guy who does listen to you and gets you gifts without having to show him what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 03:47 PM
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I don’t want to sound totally mean. But I was a terribly codependent pickmeshia who would do for, and buy gifts for people who never returned the favor. I had to learn to set boundaries for myself so I don’t get into this position again. I also understand you took him out to look at gift options so you may feel even more obligated to buy one now. You are nagging your boyfriend to invest in you and make you feel cared for instead of caring for yourself. You are making him the arbiter of your peac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 03:41 PM
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He is not your father. Why are you giving him a gift at all? Are they your kids? If so, take them for the day maybe. If they aren’t, once again, WHY?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 03:26 PM
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TrustYourIntuition
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 02:05 PM
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You can say he raped you love. I had a hard time saying it too. It felt like less of a trauma to say he helped himself to my body because I was passed out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 06:15 PM
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Link the post please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 02:18 PM
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“Edit: Quit asking me to link the video.” WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK IS WRONG WITH SCROTES? I wanna fight someone over this. I am so mad for her. 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 02:17 PM
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Can you link?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 08:52 PM
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Yeah. NSFW material. It seems like a troll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 01:58 PM
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This is a troll account. This is his only post and his user name is RonDegrade. Poor thing needs some attention. He’s probably jerking off to the YTA comments this very moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:33 AM
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It is. Just not good. This is a Troll account. Username RonDegrade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:32 AM
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“With minutes to go until go time, the cast talks shop. In response to a conversation starter I do not catch, Allie relates a childhood memory, the gist of which is that when she was 9 years old, hanging out with her brothers, she was encouraged to perform sexual acts for their friends in exchange for marijuana. Now Deen looks up from his telephone for the first time in quite a while. "And you were cool with it?" "Oh, _yeah," _says Allie James. Deen hoists his eyebrows. "As long as you were cool…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 02:14 PM
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I stumbled across the first one by accident the smoke alarm kept beeping( not going off but low battery beep). There was a small white square camera the size of a ring right next to it. I would have never noticed it if not for the alarm battery. This was in Barcelona in the lavapies neighborhood. The next time I stayed at an Airbnb(Denver) I was super paranoid of course. So I checked around for one and, low and behold , they’ve consolidated. 🙄😩 Now I just stay at hotels. Still no guarantee but m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 02:53 AM
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Bonus round: I have stayed in two Airbnb’s that had hidden cameras installed in the bedroom. Be careful because they are watching, recording, and posting those videos too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 02:01 AM
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☝🏽needs to be a post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 10:32 PM
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This guy reposts the same shit all over reddit. He is truly a troll of the highest order. I called him on this shit in u/gendercritical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 08:25 PM
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But look at what this guy said: It would be fun, but it would be less accurate. Men are less likely than women than women to have a given level of education, more likely to have a criminal history, more likely to abandon a spouse and children to fend for themselves, more likely to adopt practices risky to their health both in the short and long term, and so on. Which is to say, that by any objective measure, any particular man is less likely to be worth marrying than any particular woman. Of cou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 07:36 PM
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The abuse form. The ex loved saying I was crazy any time I got onto him about how I was being treated. He said I sound like Daffy Duck. After that Daffy was my running pet name. I hated it, but as it turns out, he was right. I was crazy for trying to plead with him to treat me well, and I probably did sound like daffy. So I changed that and left his ass. No more daffy 💁🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 02:21 AM
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It’s the ratio of men to women down here. And men know it favors them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 12:22 AM
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Listen to this song It has all the words for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 06:05 PM
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“As a disclaimer, I should say that I am a sex worker and sex educator who is 100 percent pro-sex and pro-kink. I have identified as kinky for 17 years, and I believe that consensual BDSM is a normal and healthy expression of sexuality. I do not believe BDSM is inherently abusive, and I do not think that people seek out BDSM because they are emotionally damaged (well, maybe some people do, but not everyone). “ “Yet consent violations inevitably occur in the kink community—not because kink is an …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:50 PM
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I did. I just hate they make me take it there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:30 AM
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LMAO! They are the bus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:03 AM
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BeRude2020 I’ve come too far and pay too much for my place to tolerate people in there when I no longer want them to be. Sexy time included.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 03:38 AM
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I’m in my mid 30’s. I feel mine hasn’t changed like people said it would. However, I know myself and my body better than in my 20’s. I know how to have sex for my satisfaction and I’m comfortable saying my needs in bed. Mostly because I have the conversations before bed. Men however will try you still sometimes, and you MUST be assertive. In essence, the sex is just better in my 30’s so I want it more than I did in my 20’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 03:21 AM
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Atlanta men enter the chat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:58 AM
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The joy luck club is one i posted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:46 AM
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Uuuuuugggghhh This part! I told this dude I wanted differently than him and I’m not going to be his fuck buddy. So why does he keep trying to screw me? Why does he keep trying me like a free sample at Costco? I hate that I have to block low value men but they’ll just keep testing my boundaries for weaknesses. It’s just like a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:44 AM
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But who gets to measure? Against whose standards? That is subjective. And more importantly not my point. I am saying not to take it personal. It is not a judgement saying you are less than. Humans are particular. It’s a reflection of them not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 03:53 PM
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[I wonder how you actually get a woman to want that from you...] The thing is that women have free will. If you are a straight man, is there anything another man is can do to make you want that from them? Is there anything another woman you aren’t attracted to, can do to make you want that from them? No. As much as they want you, the choice is yours to reciprocate. It doesn’t matter how nice they are or if they would genuinely take care of and love you. Please respect these women’s decisions. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 03:32 PM
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Imagine being so excited about the possibility women’s standards may be lowered enough to that you might actually have a chance of sleeping with them. Real quality specimen here.
/r/seduction17/05/20 05:31 PM
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Just a troll. He wishes it was the truth. The thing about FDS is the core beliefs and values are there already. Anything that doesn’t line up with our values is easily spotted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 12:01 PM
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Did R. Kelly get out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 04:19 AM
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It is a show called 90 day fiancé. Rose is a woman who was engaged to this descendant of Jaba the Hut. She ultimately realized that no matter how much she wants a “better life” for herself; marrying a lump of snot with greasy hair is beneath her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 12:17 AM
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Arch game is better than mine!🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 12:02 AM
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The audacity of this scrote. Unfortunately this is a tester text. He is seeing up front if a woman is down for the submissive lifestyle. Unfortunately some will respond “Yes Sir!” to this post. It’s why FDS is so important. We have to educate ladies on their worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 12:02 AM
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If it’s a new account, only so many days old, they assume ThrowRa.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 11:59 PM
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I was really upset about my past traumas. I would say why do men just take from me? Why did they feel entitled to my beauty and love? I felt so depleted. In that moment, I got my mantras. The source of my beauty is endless. The source of my love is endless. I didn’t have “good” years that I can never get back. Or lost so much love I cannot love myself anymore. My beauty is more than skin deep and it will always be with me. It is never too late to love myself. Forgiveness of myself and others has…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 11:25 PM
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I had the most interest conversation on PPD about this. Quite (link 1) refreshing (link 2) Edit: added links
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 05:18 PM
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❤️🧡💗 SIS we are here with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 05:07 PM
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As much as I want to dislike this I have to respect it. There are many guys who will use the friendship angle as a way in the door to sexual favor. This is an honest male POV, and probably part of the new normal OP was talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:22 PM
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So if you can’t fuck, then what’s the point? There is nothing else of value to you about that woman than her capacity to be intimate with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:11 PM
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I had an acquaintance who I didn’t really care for. I thought he was the laziest, LVM, mommas boy, scammer. He admitted he would study symptoms of disorders he would then claim to have in order to get disability and opioids. When he got married, everyone in our circle of friends instantly decided she was the best thing about him. She had been working 2 jobs to his none for years, and struggling under the financial weight of taking care of her manchild and herself. When she finally divorced him w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 03:00 AM
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“ All of the things we were told would be in place to help us have failed!” = He lost his job and is mad at the government.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 01:13 AM
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LVM be like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 01:43 AM
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A rapper Plies has been known to pull this stunt on Instagram.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 12:37 AM
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LVM (Woke hoteps): “Women shouldn’t have periods, and if they were vegan they wouldn’t.” Vegan virgin women are considered the most pure and desirable. Mindsets LVM have while scarfing down Taco Bell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 12:35 AM
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Aaaaaaannnndddd now she is having to compete with cam girls because COVID-19 decimated her job. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 12:46 PM
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Because when the money comes fast, it leaves just as quickly. They can just go to work tonight and make another $500 to pay bills they owe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 12:45 PM
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Atl guys are horrible. They’ve bought into the unbalanced gender ratio dynamic and seem entitled to their own personal harem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 12:59 AM
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I feel like I owe it to all the women all over the world, who can’t choose or are kidnapped, to be ruthless in my selection. Loneliness be damned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 12:13 AM
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I’ve seen a few posts where women asking for encouragement to stand up and establish boundaries. Please use this time of quarantine to reach out to your local CODA chapters and fet Help with your codependant behavior. Until you can rest in your inherent worth, you will never be able to truly respect yourself and set boundaries. Level up my queens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 12:29 AM
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Sis I’ve been there too. Valuing yourself first starts with getting the material and help you need. You have exhibited very codependent behavior in your life. You probably learned this as a survival method when younger. Please read the recommendations on the FDS handbook for codependency. I personally liked codependent no more by Melanie beatie. But also find yourself a local suppprt group like codependents anonymous. CODA offers zoom meetings multiple times a week for COVID restrictions. Love s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 12:22 AM
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The women in our family were taught to find a man that is a Christian, doesn’t beat on you, or cheat on you. However, if he’s a Christian, and he does one of the other two, then be long suffering and love him through it. When I asked my mother about this she said no one is perfect. “God didn’t give me a perfect husband or children and I had to deal with it, so you do too.” 🙄Needless to say I had no idea how to expect things from men. Here I am in my 30s trying to learn basic stuff like how to sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 12:15 AM
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I think her video on manifesting should be posted too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 11:40 PM
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I dated a guy who would say: “Am I an asshole for inviting you over for sex?” “Would I be selfish if I said I want to eat you out?” “I’m a tool. Just use me like one. “ “I know I’m a piece of shit but I want you.” I finally responded “If you have to ask; you already know the answer. And you don’t get cool points for asking first if you can be an asshole, just don’t be one.” I ghosted and never looked back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 04:25 AM
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Why you do upsessed with anus? infatuated
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:22 PM
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really
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:21 PM
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You sure about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:16 PM
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Didn’t you post this already? Why the obsession with girls anuses?!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:57 PM
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Water is more valueable than diamonds intrinsically. But because water is readily available to a large portion of the world via any spout, store, lake and river. So naturally we take it for granted. 💁🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 12:05 PM
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I just confirm it. YEP I have daddy issues. Can you help me? I need you to go away because you’re triggering my daddy issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 11:54 AM
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Here’s looking at you Jay-Z
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 11:21 AM
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Are you me? Am I you? I had the exact same story with my last lvm. Every guy wants to fulfill their fantasy of me but few of these men actually want to get to know me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 02:38 AM
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Beautiful analogy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 03:12 PM
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Yeah but where was a Viking or an Dane getting an orange?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 12:54 PM
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@thecrimsonkiss and @femalecollective for inspirational uplifting words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 03:10 PM
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Unfortunately this is my mother talking about my father. They are still together after 40 years. She would say to me “Now you know your father is never gonna do that” and roll her eyes. I’ve asked her so many times why she stayed. She says he took care of her emotion needs. But I know deep down she was a pickmeisha. The women in our family were just trying to get a man who didn’t beat you or cheat on you. Dad was the best she was going to do, even though she had to raise a fourth child as a sing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 01:28 PM
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He apparently didn’t even pass though. They were humbling him on black twitter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 11:12 PM
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Simp in the new N word for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 02:19 AM
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It’s seems like you are more concerned with being attractive vs finding out what you are attracted to. I might be pushing it but, have you thought about what you want in a guy? I don’t just mean in a general way like must be nice, or even FDS standards of must be financially generous. What is important to you? What do you like? Because this seems like you’ve already given up on getting what you want and are settling for the best you can get. And, even that requires you to change who you are. I s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:55 AM
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You already know the answer. That’s why there is confusion. That’s why you found your way to FDS and the material resonates with you. Your intuition is uneasy and you are trying rationalize it away. Really go through the FDS handbook. There is plenty of self help articles and books like Codependent No More by Melanie Beatie. Start recognizing these signs; deal with your traumas. Everyone has a wound that keeps them from functioning as an adult and setting boundaries. Leave. Leave. Leave, but lov…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 03:00 PM
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It almost makes me wonder if ‘alpha male strategies’ is a response to female dating strategy. Does he troll this sub?🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 02:33 AM
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I saw this reply: “Take a deep breath, then a good long introspection about what you want in your life no matter how this pans out. Less than a year ago you complimented a newly single 24 yr old female on r/RateMe. Just commenting on that to say many “harmless” actions can and do escalate.” This person had more patience than me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 01:34 AM
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It’s as if you’re watching something disgusting like someone popping a zit. You don’t want to watch, but you can’t look away, and ultimately you vow to never let yourself get into that situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 06:28 PM
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It’s literally called the Sleazeball Gang. 🤮 Did you hear how he said women use their sexiness from a young age to manipulate men? EWWWW What the pedo Freudian slip is going on with him? Your niece wasn’t using her sexiness on you!!! GTFOH and get over yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 06:19 PM
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Please please do this OP!🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:27 PM
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“They do not like it when they see black and mixed women with white men or other non-black men.” Girl it’s much worse than that now. I’m mixed too, but still dating. I feel like post black panther era LVM black men went from “ooooohhh whatchu mixed?” with to “ooooo what are mixed with? Do you identify as more black or white? I can’t deal with colonizers.” Then they spend the rest of the time making you apologize for that half. Neither one was good and both objectified me according to my looks in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 03:33 PM
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“Now I'm 33 and I won't get involved with anyone unless it's endgame. No casual sex and no dating apps because they're full of trash. My perspective on dating has changed completely due to my past experiences and this subreddit. I'm number one and that's that. As I said, the next person I get involved with is not going to know I don't want to get married until they propose.” This is my life too. The last guy I was dating I made the mistake of telling him “I’m not looking for marriage”. He appare…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 02:55 PM
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I’m collecting slanderous names like they’re Girl Scout badges. And I wear them with pride.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 02:55 PM
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Girl I dated a guy I jokingly called the “Vampire”. 🙄Talk about ignoring red flags. And I’m in my 30s. Like I should have known better right? I think it sucks because I was arrogant enough to think I was smarter than the average woman falling for an emotional vampire. I came from a family full of talkers. I can catch a man trying to schmooze me a mile away. No way I’d ever fall for a smooth talker. I stayed longer than I should’ve because I thought I had it under control. But there is always som…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 01:22 PM
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That.... And I appreciate you making the distinction. I am currently working with a therapist on the trauma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 08:24 PM
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This triggers me a bit. I want to like the logic. In fact I whole heartedly believed in that logic up until recently. I even put a similar quote on my vision board. The problem is if you are codependent. You see this article and think you just didn’t try hard enough in your relationship. That you gave up too soon and it might have worked out if you just love and endured more. At least that is what I did. I had to realize that I failed first by settling for a man that didn’t meet my standards. I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 12:58 PM
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I always say this. We know that to have a healthy body we need to restrict what types of food we eat and exercise more. Now how do we apply that to our hearts and minds( the starting point for all our actions). We must restrict what those vessels take in even more so than with our physical self. They call television programming for a reason. I hated shows like scandal because they showed a woman on top of her career game but willing to be the other woman. It was the nutritional equivalent of a t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 01:39 PM
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The author’s name is candida. 💁🏽‍♀️what did you expect from a yeasty fungus?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 01:31 PM
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I’ve seriously been thinking of starting a women’s only wellness community and pickmiesha rehab center. I am hoping to have stylists, fitness experts, recruiters, grandmas, aunties and teachers donate services. Any woman who needs to start over can come to the incubator until well enough to face the world again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 05:49 PM
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She talked of the entire dating game changing, and it being scarier all around for women who choose to date right now. You came away thinking our problems would be solved if we just choose not to have children with LVM? Yes that is a FDS standard to not have children with lvm; but saying that we shouldn’t have kids with lvm is placing the total responsibility of fuckboi behavior on women. For you to list that one thing to do is overly simplistic. And it contributes to the societal stigma of maki…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 12:59 PM
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All this wonderful reading material and you came away with this resolution?🙄 User flair checks out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 12:19 PM
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The documentary is a cautionary horror story. I just got done with Hot girls wanted on Netflix and that is just as traumatic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 03:41 AM
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Yep but there are ladies in there that leveled up. I feel the movie focuses more on self love and acceptance. The men are secondary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:24 PM
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He more than likely was quarantined with his gf/wife. He more than likely had no good intentions with you and you were love bombed at first. You can’t focus on wondering why he didn’t respond or why he ghosted. Just be grateful you got out, and are not the one he’s quarantined with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 01:47 PM
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For me it is doubly so with a family of therapists. I felt responsible for fixing friends and boyfriends because I could clearly identify what their issues were. I was so concerned with helping others that I never could fathom even asking how they benefit me. Or ask them to care about my needs. There was an narc within me that said ‘Nobody cares about you! Put on your big girl panties and get back to work!’ So I didn’t bother letting people take care of me. They couldn’t be trusted. I think I at…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 05:46 PM
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I was coming here to say this. I literally had a guy tell me he was being selfish and an asshole before doing things and then remind me that he did warn me after I got upset at him. The thing about Vampires (in this case emotional vampires) is they are not as strong as they seem. They cannot come in your house if you do not invite them in. I haven’t talked to him since, though he reaches out to me repeatedly, years later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 03:36 PM
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Sister I hear you. I have a cousin whom I speak with daily about this same thing. She has been praying diligently for her Black Christian husband for a while now. But, we live in Atlanta where they say the ratio of men to women is disproportionate and in favor of men. There is a male arrogance because that knowledge breeds LVMs. But, to find a Christian Husband as well??!?!?!?! You can’t help but to feel it is slim pickings out here. Also it sucks when you see other people who are less Christian…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 03:17 PM
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Ooooohhhh they are coming for us! 👀😏🤣 “Then we can’t consider MRA/Redpill/Blackpill groups to be hate groups either. None of them should be banned, and here’s the real kicker. YALL SHOULD BE GOING THERE TOO. To see what they’re saying and how to combat it. To figure out the strategies and how to beat them at it. Imagine playing chess but you can’t see your opponent’s pieces. These toxic female subreddits lay out their whole battle plan and the things they’ll do, things y’all can then watch out f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 05:31 AM
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I saved this article when it first came out and come back to it when I need a good kick in the ass. It’s very motivational.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 02:47 AM
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Further evidence this author is sane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 01:01 AM
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The whole article is an amazing read truthfully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 12:22 AM
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Sis I expect better from you. Did you read the handbook? Don’t get on this sub feeling sorry for yourself and making negative proclamations about your life that has so much living left to do. You haven’t seen all there is to see in the world. You haven’t discovered you yet. You haven’t met all the men there are in the world. The goal of this sub is to get women to level up their way of thinking. Once you know you deserve the best the world has to offer, things (like HVM) start to fall in line. A…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 08:59 PM
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A friend put me on to that podcast a few months back. She told me it was refreshing and empowering so I gave it a try. I made it through ten minutes of them talking about rough anal sex before I turned it off. Absolute trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 08:24 PM
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My father was around, and even emotionally caring for me, but he did not support my mother in any practical way. My mother did everything, and by virtue of that I learned that I need to do everything for a man. It was a sad existence that left me depleted and begging for crumbs of time. I’ve been on the FDS journey for a while now and am so happy to have found you ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 08:39 PM
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I want to share this site with a girlfriend of mine but she prides herself on being the best wingman to all of her male friends. Not everyone can be trusted to keep this info out of lvm hands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 07:56 PM
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I’m 36. Never been married. No kids. I decided at 29, instead of looking at all my married friends with jealousy, I would do something those friends couldn’t do and travel extensively. I became a flight attendant, curated a wonderful world wide network of friends, have flings, have adventures, organized a group of flight attendants to support an organization for victims of sex trafficking, etc etc. Those married friends call me and beg me to tell them about the hotelier that charted a yacht to t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 04:27 PM
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