I’m (21) And he is( 27), We have been talking for several weeks now and his lack of consistency for messages throws me off, I myself am not good at it but that’s bc I take care of my mom and he knows that. How do you communicate your standards to a man and say you want consistency and not fond of uncertainty without pushing him away and appearing demanding? Sometimes he texts me once a day,

EDIT: What pulls me in is that he always apologizes but does it again and says things like “Also if I take a long to reply, especially on weekends, it's because I'm gaming and enjoying my alone time.”