It is so frustrating how hard js is to knnow if someone is using incognito mode. Like i literally dont care if these men want to erode their dicks into the obvillion on their way to getting ed. But the thing is howw much they lie and the deciete. Dont we have a right to know if someone is putting us in harms. The studies are there a relationship with a porn watcher is going to fail. The hurt on many levels! They can have their privcy but really nothing is priviate nowadays its only private to the ppl who you can do the most harm too! I wish theere was an app that lets you know if someone is a porn user because omg they blend in so well. Not a spy app an out in the open app. They dress nice treat you well until you see them and then the mask falls bc they know that you know. I have an std now if i woould have known its just why is his privacy so important if it comes at the expense at hurting me. I am not forcing anyone to do anything i do wnat to force ppl to not lie and be decieteful. 5 years of my life wasted i am hurt and sad! And i get sick alot! If You are a porn addict then be one but you can not be with me. I had no say in that. If only we can just see how often they visit incognito thats it this is why its so hard to find a good man.

I told him from day one!

They know its wrong bc they hide it. you can have varriying opinions about what food you ljke doesnt mean you hide when you eat. They absolutely know without a doubt .....its just not fair. Any fds can come up with an app that can find how often a guy serched words that were porn releated before you start dating? Why not...... when you get hired your work does a back ground check. They watch what you do irbc work.. in a work environment we know we need to make sure but yet in a relationship if you dont have trust in a relationship billions of ppl tell you to leave. Ina situation wheere i have more to loose i am told to trust blindly. And if i cant then i am the problem but the company my husband works for can monitor everything and its their right why such a dissconnect. No one tells an employer that well if you dont trust them then dont look for ppl to hire. You know how ridiculous that would sound

Bc Money is involved but when human beings are involved you are supoose to trust?

Who came up with these rules?

Also hate comments about women being in an abusive relationship where she says she had no idea at first and then he changed

there should be a website where if you can prove they cheated on you their names stays there .

Every one tells her to leave so he can get another novel thing to rinse and repeat? Thats prob excatly what he wanted! Thats like putting a bandiad on a gashing wound........ In a few months someone else would be writing that story word for word

Nothing changes ....why not?? Something needs to change ! I wish it could! Small things really to avoid the wolves in sheeps clothing we have too so many tips do this do that . Look out for this sign....etc.. they are helpful but liars also evolve and adapt . they read these tips.....and then we fall again years later it.... shouldn't be like this ..seriously whhyyyy,

Sorry for the billion typos