I’m happy to say today has been a huge day. I’m implementing FDS for the first time as I’ve been dating over the past month. I went on a few dates over a few weeks with a guy that seemed stable and kind and was putting a lot of effort into planning dates and always reaching out to me. I was having fun! But, last night I decided to search for him on Instagram and found he follows a bunch of Instagram models and even private pages dedicated to the hottest college girls—who I can only assume are being submitted to the page by creeps without their consent or knowledge. This morning I sent him a text telling him that I’m not interested in seeing him anymore because guys who are into objectifying women are a hard no for me and then immediately blocked him so I didn’t have to bother seeing a response.

Girls, it feels GOOD. I used to never be the kind of girl to see a red flag and immediately call things off. I used to make excuses about how they’re still being nice to me and I’m having fun etc. Telling myself to keep going with it and having fun until it fully implodes. But no, no more of that. Red flags? I’m out. No guilt. Following my gut and keeping my standards!

I then proceeded to go to a meeting for a non-profit board I’m on and got nominated for and then unanimously voted to be president of the board 💁🏻‍♀️ 👑