I mourned the end of this relationship long ago. He literally does nothing all day other than stay in bed and watch tv. He does the absolute bare minimum to get by and is so passive in his own life. I am convinced he would have me be a forever live-in girlfriend. I just broke the news to him that it is over and we need to make arrangements for him to move out. I believe I was getting to this resolution on my own, but with having the FDS, I really feel like I have what I need to go forward and be released from my Pickmeisha past. I am NEVER letting a man move in with me because he’s a “good guy and needs help” or taking anything less than what I not only deserve but what I want in a relationship. There are plenty of dicks in the sea! I am worth so much more than what I have allowed myself to have. I am excited for the future for the first time in a long time! Thank y’all!!